I've been sleeping with the same guy for about 8 months now. It wasn't consistent but us texting/snapping was pretty consistent. We always said it was just sex and that it was nothing more and he and I were okay with that. In September he up and ghosted me for a month. Removed me from snap chat and stopped texting me. Then at the beginning of October he texted me and we started talking again. Never apologized or anything. I was fine because we were just having sex. Most recently he's been saying things like "my dog needs a mom" or will snap me a picture of him and his dog cuddling and will say "this could be you cuddling with us", He then sent another snap saying i do need to take you out to dinner sometime soon. On Tuesday night we were snapchatting normally and out of nowhere he sends a snap that just says " I love you" . No context or anything. I sent back a snap saying excuse me? and he sent one back saying "Shhhhh". What does that even mean? the whole night I said no you don't and he kept saying "yes I do". Towards the end of the night I straight up asked him what he meant and why? like as a friend? and he goes "yes as a friend, I'm so sorry". First off, I didn't even feel like we were friends. we were just fucking, we never hung out as friends, we would have sex and then I would just leave. half of our conversations are about sex. We haven't talked since this happened and its been 2 days. what should I do and what does this mean?
Friends with benefits said he loved me, what does this mean?
