How does it make me seem when I complain to new guys about other guys I’ve dated?

[Anonymous]

then often the guy I vented to becomes part of the guys that I talk about to a new date, then he becomes one too and so on. I am not a bitch deep down I think all these guys have different great qualities we just weren’t a match or there was something I knew wasn’t right for me or they had certain issues or didn’t like me anymore

[Summeroflove]

Well. It’s not good right off the bat. Later on. Yeah. It’s good to vent. But vent to your friends about it.

Because in my mind. It will be like…. She’s just going to run around and talk about me behind my back too.

Sometimes things aren’t meant to be. Doesn’t mean there is a problem with either of you. You have different standards, politics, religious views, were not compatible, etc. Which is why we date. To see who we could be with what we like and don’t like.

Once you get to know him. Then you can talk about things like that more.

How do you feel when a guy tells you everything he hates about his exes and girls he’s dated? That you’re probably gonna be the next.

[FilmGuy93]

That's a HUGE red flag, honestly. It sounds like you're a vindictive person, at best, and not over your exes at worst.

Either way, you would have me running for the hills.

[Carolus]

Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, you still cling to anything - anger, anxiety or possessions - you can’t be free.

[spartan55]

Pro tip: NEVER talk shit about ex boyfriend's, guys you've dated, etc.
This is a HUGE red 🚩 flag

[DailyAsk]

I don’t want to hear about your exes.

[Anonymous]

Like you're still stuck on past relationships.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless a asks you about the past, then don't bring it up.

[Asker]

So they might think I’m sensitive and can’t get over some of those guys so I’m venting to them to get it out?

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly.

[boggboss]

That your a crazy girl that will bring issues