Why do I seem to get annoyed when people to talked about a boyfriend only when I am single?

[Splatmate22]

The issue with me is that I don't want to be single and seem like I hate being single very lot. Yet I am more moods swing and always feel more emotional than each time that I am single. One problem that I do is that I always think about getting a new boyfriend each time that I am single. I cannot seem to stop doing it. It doesn't help when people talk about a boyfriend or having a boyfriend I get annoyed about. I just keep repeating. My mum said. All women struggle to find a boyfriend. Kept repeated like this line. My dad is too old to fashion for dating tips. Doesn't really help me anymore. I am always sad and unhappy while I am. Is not online is also happening a lot in real life as well. Get annoyed at the tiny little things when people talk about boyfriends or girlfriends. I already fed up with being single.

[iamjustaman]

I might suggest researching the pros and cons of being single versus being in a committed relationship. It is hard to say based on the recent posts whether you are ready for committed relationship or not.

[Splatmate22]

I forget add some things. I have 9 ex boyfriends. Some of my previous relationships some were bad some were good. Had more bad experiences but still want to have a boyfriend only seem to wheb wueb when I am single. I also do fo

[Splatmate22]

I also focus on that one thing.

[iamjustaman]

You have time still. Feelings come and go. Keep growing as a person and you will find that it will happen for you.

[Splatmate22]

What if I already feel like I'm already done with my age. That I do not feel right.

[iamjustaman]

We all go through that. But truthfully you are always going to learn and grow, with or without someone. Have faith in the process

[Splatmate22]

I already feel I am already done with my learning about my self. Not being very interested in sex. Would you prefer a long-term relationship? Dislike that I don't enjoy the single. It has been very difficult to find or get a boyfriend. Wasn't fully attracted to a guy that I met at a disabled dating site. Didn't meet later Thursday. I told him about being honest. I don't feel bothered by homosexual couples. It would only be straight couples that annoyed me more.

[iamjustaman]

Long term is the best relationship, but it takes time to find. It is like gold, very valuable, yet very hard to find in our natural environment. Trust me, your learning is far from over. We were designed to always need to learn

[Splatmate22]

I already be learning things. Been through vocational college. Learn about Std there at college. So i already learn lot of my previous relationship and going through college. I know i don't like cheaters and playboys. What do you think of me.

[iamjustaman]

I think you are one of God's children. You desire the right kind of relationship. Most of the world does not share your relationship values. I think if you look for a guy who has values like you do then you will be blessed..

[Splatmate22]

That what I been trying to do and can't find anyway part from ones that already has a girlfriend or boyfriend. I used to attract guys easy in college did know that some guys were bad guys. I tried disabled dating sites. Nothing yet. I still dislike being single.

[iamjustaman]

It is never pleasant to be single when you don't want to be. But you will find what you seek.

[Splatmate22]

Been trying really hard and nothing yet. . nothing nothing.

[iamjustaman]

I know the feeling. It was the same for me, but happened when I least expected it

[Splatmate22]

It happened in about 2 years last year. But this year also. I also tried to in the real world and had no success with some guys already have a girlfriend. It was at a youth club.

[anton_dee]

Unconsciously you are not happy about being single. And so when anyone talks of relationships you get angry

[Splatmate22]

I just get annoyed. Not relationship. Just person talking about a boyfriend or girlfriend.

[IsoUser]

I'm guessing that you're possibly jealous.

[Splatmate22]

I don't feel like that way if a homosexual couples. It doesn't bother.