Why does this girl seem so nervous around me if she knows me?

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I see her interacting with people (some of them she has known for far less than she knows me) and she is so friendly, comfortable and chatty. She talks with me, but sometimes she looks all nervous, I make her smile and she doesn't even look at me, she just smiles and sometimes calls me a name (weirdo, big headed, pretentious).

She is always looking at her phone and seems like she isn't listening to me (but she is) she remembers almost everything I tell her (even stuff I forgot I said lol) but when she is talking with others, she is looking at them.

What is weird is that she is so comfortable teasing me and being a smartass to me, also she can be really mean (playfully) and she is all smiles when she does it and seems to have fun and we go back and forth a lot and also we have our serious chats but what gets me is that she gets so serious and quiet sometimes and only with me, if I try to push for a conversation she gets annoyed.

Why do I have so much trouble getting her comfortable with me?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

sounds like me haha. and the answer is...::drumroll::...SHE LIKES YOU! ta da dun dun!

but yea she wants to go out with you and doesn't know how you feel about her, she doesn't wanna cross that barrier without your consent you know, so thus she doesn't know how to act around u, aka she's nervous. with other people theyre just friends/acquaintances so she's just being her comfortable self making small talk, but with u...the fact that she has serious talks and she looks down, its cause she values your opinions or advice, she may even look up to you and she has feelings for u. but if your not giving signals back that you like her too, she may just retreat and back off completely take it as your not interested, so decide soon if you like her too, otherwise don't lead her on please! if you don't like her be straight forward tell her she's like a sister to you or you're dating another girl, this way no one gets hurt. don't play games and if you let this stage go on for too long she will lose interest and another guy will take her. trust me it happened to me. I liked this guy and omg for months and months I kept wondering if he liked me or not he was so hot and cold, so after like 7 months I gave up I met another guy who was super nice and sweet and I went out with him. by that time the jerk guy was like pissed at me like what the hell you played me, I was like no I didn't play anything I figured you werent interested it shouldn't take 7 months to ask a girl out. and yea I'm glad I chose the nice guy.

prettypeach20 · Accepted Answer

I do exactly the same thing! She is my twin! lol

She does it cause she likes you...even though you have known her for much longer than other people, she is nervous around you and totally comfortable around them because she has no interest in them! For example, I get more nervous around the guy I am currently 'dating' then I do with random strangers...I can talk to any random guy but still experience trouble talking to the one that I am seeing...she will get over it with time...try going out with her more often and she will become comfortable...

Answer mine please?

PixieDust · Accepted Answer

Obviously she likes you. Not knowing how you really feel about her probably makes her act cold sometimes but when you're focus on her, she's all 'hot' and ready for a battle of wits as a response. If it takes any longer for you to make a move on her, she's just assuming more and more she's just a friend to you and nothing more. Make a move if you like her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's because she's attracted to you. The sudden change of behavior tells it so.

StephanieL · Answer

she's probably in love with you :). If you like her too, make clear that you like her back. Cause she might be afraid you don't want her. Don't keep her nervous if you want her and give her a sign that she can tell her true feelings.

tatymlf · Answer

Boyys. The girl is CRAZY IN LOVE. What happens is that she is afraid of showing you that. She can't make eye contact with you because she is shy like every girl in love. It's easier for her playing talk with you than serious, she's scare when it gets so personal so she bad react.  The best thing you can do is show her that you are into her.

jazzysaxplayer · Answer

She def likes you. I know for me when I realize that I like a guy our conversations go from chatty and normal to really awk. As far as her being annoyed, she's probably annoyed that you haven't made a move yet. girls expect guys to take that first step and it sounds like she's no exception! Just go for it with her!

Solodolochick · Answer

She is startin to like u... if a girl begins to get nervous around you then she most likely attractive to u

kasiecakes · Answer

She's interested bro. Ask her out and get to know her.

RussianBombshell · Answer

She likes you. Talk to her about it. She's not gonna make the move until you do.

Anonymous · Answer

She deff likes you! She gets quiet and awkward because she is most likely annoyed that you haven't made a move..Go for it you'll put the biggest smile on her face ;p

pips1 · Answer

she likes you maybe its her star sign or something or maybe she just struggles to talk to you

Anonymous · Answer

Girls pretend they're nervous for attention. The more nervous they are just means the more attention you have to pay to them and the more shoes you're required to buy. It's all a big game.

Miscah · Answer

It's quite possible she likes you. Give her some time, maybe she'll come through. I hope this helps! 'Tonight, there's a party on the rooftop, top of the world...' --M x

katembg481990 · Answer

She likes you and she is afraid that you just see her as a friend.

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