Do you think a guy who likes you will consistently like you or one day he’ll get over you?

[Anonymous]

I miss him 😢

[FilmGuy93]

Every crush has an expiration date, if it’s not acted on.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s over you now since you’re missing him with a teary emoji. If he were really into you his effort would be consistent and he’d be trying to progress into more.

[Asker]

:( :( :( :(

[Opinion Owner]

You disagree?

[Asker]

I think he's a jerk. A REAL JERK who thinks too highly of himself.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re probably right, so what’s there to miss?

[Asker]

Sometimes we like people because we've known them when we were younger not because of who they are.

[Opinion Owner]

True but in those times, stay present. Thinking of the past keeps people in toxic situations rather than focusing on now. He is no longer who you knew when you were younger. Giving him too much credit and enough chances is how he because a jerk towards you. He took you for granted and thinks you will be back. Prove him wrong.

[Asker]

Sometimes the people we know when we are younger we think we can change them. We can't. The sooner we accept that the better.

[Opinion Owner]

You are very right. I made that mistake with a guy I knew since kindergarten. We give them too much credit for their past and misjudge their present. It’s hard to accept they can be hurtful but it’s a sad, disappointing truth.

[Asker]

I still miss him. And his gorgeous face.

[Opinion Owner]

You are not wrong for that! It’s hard to get over men like him, please take your time and heal. As long as you don’t go back and don’t talk yourself into doing so.

[Opinion Owner]

Do whatever it takes right now, cry, vent, anything. Just as long as you are moving forward, don’t talk yourself into going back. He cannot be changed or fixed, he is him, you know it. This will get better.

[teamvic]

I mean eventually unless there's no one else for him to like then yeah he will get over you.

[spartan55]

He's already over you.

[Asker]

You're a horrible human being.

[spartan55]

Because I stated something you don't want to hear? Yeah OK.

[Asker]

Yes.

[boggboss]

Ofc people move on lol