If he says "next time we see us will be the last one.. Why he wait a lot?

[Anonymous]

My friend with benefits said next time will be the last for us... But when i told him when we can see us... He never proposes the day... He just said "we gonna see us but I will go to the dentist I couldn't" then "we gonna see us but I don't have enough money for the love hotel" then...

Why he is waiting to the last time?

[FilmGuy93]

Because he wants to bang? I don’t think I understand the source of your confusion

[DermalPunch]

You lost me at friends with benefits. Likely he is either going to a) stop cheating on his girlfriend or b) found a girlfirend.

[Noahzaid]

I didn’t understand your question, I’m here if you want to explain more.

[Asker]

We are friend with benefits.. He said we should stop and next time we saw us to have sex will be the last one... I didn't feel bad for that (actually for me is better) and i told him we should see us the most faster possible. He is putting excuses to see us.
He didn't want to stop? He didn't want a last time? Why he is waiting a lot?

[Noahzaid]

You don’t want to have sex anymore and he doesn’t too but the problem is he promised a one past night to together but he’s stalling it?
Correct me If I’m wrong?

[Noahzaid]

Last*

[Asker]

I want to have more sex with him... He said no (for me no problem I don't feel bad for a good bye) .. And the next time will be the last one.. But yess... He is stalling it!

[Noahzaid]

Hmmm okay, lets think it through step by step.
First, why do you want to have a last one ☝️?
Second, do you think he started to have feelings for you?
Third, how long since you start the friends with benefits idea?

[Noahzaid]

Started*

[Asker]

1. He proposed that after we have a discussion (I was angry and told him I'm gonna see a other man) it was a lie about that guy. Then after a week i talk to him again and told him the much I miss him... He said "next time we see us will be the last one, I'm talking with a girl and probably will date her (I don't know if it is real or not) I said okay.. Let's gonna see us next week then.. And he started to stalling.
2. I don't know... He never proposes me something more formal.
3. We are friends with benefits since 1 year ago.

[Noahzaid]

Okay, ☝️There are two explanations.
First explanation, is that he really has a new girl and he is just playing dumb.

Second explanation, is that he really likes you but he was affected by your previous statement which is that you have a new boyfriend.

I would go with the second one because If he really had a new girl he wouldn’t have told you to meet up again.

My personal Advice: no one here can give you the right explanation or answer because we really can’t judge something you, yourself couldn’t judge.

[Asker]

I don't feel bad if he find a new girl... I will be happy (:
After he said that I sent him pictures nudes mines and he accepted them. Yesterday he chooses for my babydoll to use it for the last time... But today he didn't answer me to see us.

[Noahzaid]

I tired to help as much as I can.
The rest is up to you.
It was nice talking to you.

[Asker]

Oh sorry i was just giving more details hahaha
:(