So I had been going throuh something and told my guy friend that we couldn't be friends anymore but i couldn't tell him the reason why. Really the reason being that I like him so much but we are just friends and I am too scared to tell him the way I feel. I couldn't take it being just his friend and nothing more. So I just told him that we couldn't be friends anymore and that I was sorry. He told me quote "Well just take some time to think about it and pray, and if after that you feel the same well i can accept it." I just said ok. Then after a week of thinking I realized I just can't lose a friend like him. He is just so special to me. So I told him I was sorry and how grateful I am for him in my life and just sappy things. I told him that I still couldn't tell him the reason why I had said we couldn't be friends and he said that he is sure I had my reasons and that I shouldn't worry. But then he said "But I'm also sure whatever happens, things are gonna change." I asked him what things he meant, and he said "Just our friendship in general." And I had asked "Like that we won't be friends in the future? That kind of change?" And then he said "Just ignore me haha. It was more like a question than a statement." That is the part where I am confused. Because if he meant it as a question than a statement, he would not of answered my question earlier when I had asked what kind of things he meant and he specifically said our friendship.
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There is something important about a friendship without any sexual involvement and I think it is good for everyone. It sounds like you two can be honest with each other... if you do not want to take it to another level just tell him that you value the friendship bit want to keep it at that. Sure it is kinda the friendzone thing. Were you two ever sexually involved?
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