Guys, Is tinder a habit?

[Anonymous]

Is tindering a habit if you have been on it for 5 years plus…iv been seeing someone for about 8 months and he's not been in a relationship for 5 years but still actively on tinder and changing his pics…. im lost with how dating works these days 😭

[Guy13]

The dude is addicted if he is: 1. dating you and still on it, 2. stressed out about not getting matches still. 3. using it when in a relationship... You obviously are dating a guy that needs lots of approval even if he does not act like it. Your approval should be enough. If he is serious delete the App and block the website.

Holidays are upon us so sooner than later discussion may be a good idea. Good luck with your communications as related to this.

[bamesjond0069]

He's just slaying. Just fuck around casual dating. That's basically all tinder is for. The people who disappear off tinder for a relationship are the dopes because they got serious with a tinder fucktard.

[Asker]

We didn't meet on tinder

[bamesjond0069]

Huh?

[Asker]

I thought u were implying we met on tinder but we didnt….. do you think i should run from this guy or stick it out…. if he's still properly active on tinder

[bamesjond0069]

For casual sex stick it out. I wouldn't for serious unless he says he's serious and you have a reason to believe he is. Lots of dudes fuck because they haven't met a woman they want to be long term. But if your about what most women are out there, he's not going to wife you up or be that serious with you. Just being honest.

[DarkWinterNights]

Personally I would never go on Tinder looking for a relationship. It’s far more ideal for hookups.

[Asker]

Should i be concerned or not that he's seeing me should i end what we have or never worry

[DarkWinterNights]

I don’t know what his intentions are or what kind of person he is. It’s just been my experience that people who have been on Tinder for awhile are typically successful at getting what they want out of it.

[Asker]

We didn't meet on tinder

[DarkWinterNights]

Oh whoops I misread that. Sadly my response still applies. Regardless of whether you’re exclusive he appears to be keeping his options open.

[Jamie05rhs]

He's either A) not getting any, or B) getting a LOT.

[Asker]

We have a really good time together and we still text all day everyday and see each other about twice a week i didn't think there was any need for him to be looking elsewhere at this point as im not….. its been a really long time now wev been seeing each other im lost as to what to do or think

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sorry to say this, but if he's still active on Tinder and changing his profile pics then that means he's still looking. Apparently there's something he wants that you're just not giving him. It could be totally not your fault. It could just be him. Maybe he just isn't interested in being with only one woman.
I don't know the exact answer to these questions, because I don't know him, and I don't know the details of your relationship.

[JPresidente]

If he’s still on it while seeing you, it’s a habit and he’s a player.

[TallAnon]

Nope, if you are updating things; You're actively fishing.

[Asker]

Should i run

[TallAnon]

He's definitely not going to tell you the truth, so I would just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and see what his next actions are. If he cares, he stops using them, otherwise you break up.

[Fuentes]

I delete my tinder and remake a new one after I go back on it lol

[Asker]

Its the same profile as the bio never changes

[Anonymous]

Yes, any dating or hook up sites can be very addicting.

[Asker]

Is that from experience im not sure how bothered i should be

[Opinion Owner]

No, but he needs to know how you feel about it.

[BJP21]

Not for me, not after my Catfish scam happened.

[jimmy2]

Not me I gave it 30 days