Is this married man a player?

[Anonymous]

There's this married man at my work.

He's talks a lot, I can hear him wherever he goes.

Me & this new girl have noticed he chats with people our age. (Mid 30s).

I don't know if it's just us imagining, as he always chat to them for a while. Then every now & again he would mention his wife & kids.

Like it was his kids party or his wife bought him an outfit for our work do or booked them a holiday overseas.

I don't know if he's just chatty but sometimes we think it comes across as the wrong way.

Do you think it's just the way he is?

[humanearth]

Most likely just chatty

Remember the doll from 1960s - 1880s named Catty Cathy

That's who he reminds me of

[Anonymous]

The definition of a player is someone who fakes a serious degree of romantic interest while often conducting several similar relationships simultaneously — deceptive and manipulative by nature. Based off your description it sounds like he chats with women, but doesn’t fail to mention his wife or kids. So what gives you the impression he is a player?