Why would a guy say “now im going to go to bed and think about all of this” when I told him my parents dont want me to be with him?

[Sarahleee_123]

[Adam1978]

What your parents think is irrelevant and unless you are feeling the same there is no point in bringing it up. That something they have to work on without you getting involved. So if you haven't you should make that part clear to him.

[Danny_dan92]

He’s not happy about it. And probably is going to make a decision on whether the relationship is over or not

[Sarahleee_123]

Then why would he not be happy about it?

[Danny_dan92]

Because it’s ideal to know the parents of the girl you’re dating to like and approve of you

[DermalPunch]

Exactly what he said. Very common reaction. Needs to retreat and think if he will fight this "battle" or not.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Cause he probably think about leaving you (if you are together) or stop wanting to be with you.

[jayhams]

He literally spelled it out for you.

[Nominal]

Ran away in shame.