My boyfriend still sleeps with his mom. Why?

[hannah]

I mean not all the time but sometimes he sleeps with his mom. by the way he is 27... What should I do?

[mstbooblover]

Maybe interesting to tell what you really mean with "sleeping with his mom". Just plainly sleeping for some practical or medical reason? Having more intimate activities with her in one or another way? In any case this can be a serious issue for your relation with him. If there's more than just genuinely sleeping, I'm even wondering if he ever would engage into a serious relation with a girl. I've known such a man. Very friendly, but he turned out to be gay, and he stayed with his mom till she passed away...

It's not up to me to emit any judgment, the less I don't know those people. Something to keep in mind though is that a mother is first of all a woman, and taboos a typical human problem.

[Chazmatazz269]

You have neither the right nor the responsibility to do anything. A man’s relationship with his mother is none of your business in any way whatsoever. The only thing that should matter to you is your relationship with him, and to a far lesser extent your relationship with her. Their relationship is nunya.

[boredgal]

as long as it's making her uncomfortable I think it's her business.

[Chazmatazz269]

Absolutely not. There’s no greater sign of entitlement than the expectation that someone else, let alone TWO other people, should have to accommodate your personal comforts. Grow up.

[sage2021]

Too darn weird for my taste. Unless there is some sort of medical reason why he has to sleep with his mother, but I cannot imagine what that would be.

I could never be with a guy that sleeps with his mother. Even just thinking of what they may be doing together us too graphic for me to think about.

[AmeerX]

I don't think anything like you are imagining is happening 😂.

[Kori1236]

Dump the mamas boy. Huge Norman Bates vibes there. Also he’s 27 why does he still live with his mother? Is she disabled or ill in some way which requires him to live at home

[AmeerX]

It is possible

[hahahmm]

Sounds like Norman Bates from the Bates Motel show. He was getting to within 1/2 inch of banging his mom but she used his sexual attraction to her to control him. Anyhow, your boyfriend could be banging his mom OR just an extreme momma's boy.

Either way makes him a horrible choice for a boyfriend, fiance, husband.

[socair]

If you mean in the same bed

Go and get a mature boyfriend that has the sense to realise that having a relationship with one's mother that looks like incest is never a good thing

Or join in... it will either put him off... or you might all have fun... I'm not judging

[Faith18letsgo]

Honestly I think that’s pretty normal. It’s just a social norm that we don’t sleep with our parents but when you think about it you were insanely close with them for years I wouldn’t let tradition stand in the way of what I wanted either.

[AmeerX]

Thank you, you put it better than me. Everyone automatically here thought of it in a sexual manner which is pretty stupid if you ask me

[Faith18letsgo]

AmeerX, facts. First thing when I think of between a parent and kid is not sexual.

[DoctorSex]

Would you like to sleep with his mom to? Maybe you can even pick out bedsheets with eachother at Walmart?

Im being silly, ... Or am I?

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Nowadays some families are TIGHT & maybe your boyfriend’s mom is LOOSE & that is why he sleeps with her. On the other hand maybe he wants some nieces & nephew & his mom wants daughters & sons.

[AviatorTom]

Run... as fast as you can... unless you want to share your bed with him and his mother

[CA4444]

Ewwwwwww why because they have a disturbingly close and unhealthy relationship

[AmeerX]

It is not unhealthy. May be she has a disease or disability that requires him to go to her. I do understand it can be weird for his age though

[20yearsolder]

Find a new boyfriend, I stopped sleeping with my mother when I was 6 years old, probably before that

[boredgal]

totally agree with this.

[Anonymous]

Very odd. Do you actually mean in the same bed? If so that is totally weird. If it is in the same room, and she has some health condition where she needs to be watched over, I could get that. Otherwise it is weird.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Yes that's a weird weird relationship. Don't ask us why... Don't ask anyone else about this.. don't tell anyone about this.. You know what you gotta do

[AdithyaR]

More context needed. Is it a small house and there's only one bedroom? Is it because of some health issue?

[hahahmm]

Lemme catch anybody's son spooning my wife... I would definitely give him a terminal health issue.

[AdithyaR]

If there's spooning involved then there's definitely something wrong with that situation.

[Mtbgirl]

No way. This can’t be for real. I have read some weird crazy things in here but this ! Omg. Time to move on.

[exitseven]

You might want to rethink this whole thing.

[gayesblog]

I think you should definitely talk with him, maybe with his mother as well.

[Fireguy17]

does he live way down south?
If not, that is just wrong!
Time to get someone else in your life.

[lightbulb27]

haven't heard of that. mom controlling him... won't let him go?

[USLegionary]

Must be awkward for you 3 when he's smashing your back door in.

[doodledee]

Sounds kinda odd but wouldn't be if a girl so much, so maybe not that bad?

[Wise4myage]

It’s odd either way, but I get what your saying.

[Sugar100]

Sorry dump him that is not normal and creepy and disgusting. Run away fast as you can.

[Jackblue]

Talk to him about it, it is certainly weird, but maybe his mom has some sort of anxiety issues.