Was this guy flirting/interested?

[Anonymous]

I went out to dinner a couple nights ago with a group of friends. It was me, my best friend, another female friend of ours, a guy who’d liked me for a while (I’m not interested), another guy friend, and a guy my best friend knows (we’ll call him X). I want to preface, I’d never met X before this. We went to get fast food as a group the 6 of us because it’s close to the end of the semester and we were just looking to hangout with some people we didn’t usually talk to. Anyway, we all order our food and everyone gets their orders except for me. It took me about 5-10 minutes to realized they’d lost my order, so I was standing up at the front waiting on the workers to notice me. I turn to look back at our table to see what they were doing and I find that X has walked up behind me and is offering that he help me get the worker’s attention. I thanked him awkwardly but denied it, feeling bad for taking so long. I ended up getting someone’s attention immediately after and being able to stand there and wait. I end up standing there waiting for about half an hour, and I played around on my phone the whole time not paying attention to my surroundings. My two girl-friends told me after the fact that apparently X had excused himself to check on me 3-4 times and I never noticed. After I’d gotten my meal I went and sat down and we all ate together. X was very talkative after this and kept trying to make jokes and start conversations. Through all of this he made very consistent eye contact with me, looking over my best friend who sat between us to look at me. According to my two girl-friends, X seemed most excited to talk to me, and supposedly from his demeanor he was interested. From his behavior do you think that this makes sense? I’ve been told he’s very polite and friendly, but kind of awkward and shy at times despite being talkative. I didn’t see his behavior as interested/flirty, but I’ve been told I’m oblivious to when guys show interest in me unless it’s obvious.

[Guy13]

He clearly is fond of you. Anyone as intentional as he was has a crush on you. In a “nice guy” way, he was trying to communicate a strong interest. Did you send thank you texts and encourage him. That’s big for guys or we never know. Do it today if you did not. Good luck 🍀. He seems like the loyal type. 😊

[shyonehere]

He is interested in you. It's great when there are kind guys, but he seemed very involved in making sure you were taken care of and definitely enjoyed hanging out with you more than any other... especially since this was like a first time knowing him. I'm not saying he's gaga over you, but he seems very into getting to know you personally more.

[PinkRose24]

I think he wanted to make up feel better because they forgot your food.

[FilmGuy93]

It sounds like he was just being friendly about meeting someone new

[AliciaLee]

It really seems like he went out of his way to get your attention and get to know you by really opening up to you. Guys become talkative and joke around when they really like you. If you like him maybe you should ask him if he likes you and wants to hang out to know eachother better and see where I goes. If not you can still be great friends too.

[Kevinb18222]

From what I see here it sounds like he does like you. I am also pretty reserved and awkward but if I see someone I like. I will go well out of my comfort zone to get her attention.

[Kevinb18222]

For example I work at an elementary school and the girl I’ve started seeing is the librarian. She randomly asks me to help a girl with her homework. Normally I’d be like no but I did it for her. I think she did it to see how I am around kids 😆

[spartan55]

If he was it probably fizzled since it sounds like you were blowing him off.

[sage2021]

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

[Danny_dan92]

X


Wants to have xxx with you

[Anonymous]

He is a serial killer

[Quartertolove]

It depends.