Why do I attract players?

[Anonymous]

Im quiet and to myself. I focus on my goals and myself. I pay NO guys attention even if I suspect they are playing me

they think I’m gullible.. I’m not and I still show them I’m NOT

I don’t get it

[FilmGuy93]

Players are just the men bold enough to ignore your bodylanguage.

[tzdc21]

How would you know if they are players if you don't give them any attention?

[Asker]

I don’t reciprocate flintiness back

[tzdc21]

But you said that you pay NO guys attention. I doubt every one of them is a player as you claim.

[Asker]

I don’t pay any guys attention but the ones that are more overt and flirty have actually proved to be a player.

[tzdc21]

And what about the more mellow ones? The ones that ask you out that are not as overt or flirty.

[Asker]

Not interested

[tzdc21]

Well I didn't ask if you were interested really. I asked if every single guy that approached you was a player since you say that's all you attract. I'm saying maybe not all of them are players.

[Asker]

Most of them are

[tzdc21]

Okay, well more than likely the players are gonna be the ones that approach you the most. The ones who aren't are gonna lay low most of the time. But the players are gonna come either way, regardless on if you want them to or not, because you're attractive to them. And that's all it's gonna take for them to approach.

[Asker]

But I hate it

That’s why I try and act cold so I don’t fall for the trap but I end up “believing it” and being disappointed

[tzdc21]

Sorry, but reality doesn't care if you hate it or not. It just happens. They're still gonna come. You just have to find new ways to sniff out the players.

[tzdc21]

I don't know how, for I'm not a girl lol. But I would start going online to dig up some information.

[slatyb]

They assume that you are desperate for attention.

[Asker]

I’m guessing you don’t read

[Guy13]

Put up a pic and I'll tell you...

[Asker]

What would that tell you?

[Asker]

What does that mean exactly?

[Anonymous]

Most guys are players these days.

[Asker]

I’m asking why do they bother me? When I’m quiet and don’t give them attention

[Opinion Owner]

Players look for anyone attractive to hit on. They play the numbers.

[Asker]

Shouldn’t they hit in someone who shows them attention

[Opinion Owner]

They do, but they hit on as many women as they can.