Why do only players approach me?

[Anonymous]

And even then it's rare. I'll notice different guys in each and every one of my classes at school staring at me. But the only ones that actually talk to me are the guys that seem like complete douchebags and players and even then it's rare that they initiate contact with me. In other words it happens but it's pretty rare that ANY guy will approach me. I smile back when I see guys looking at me so I don't get why more guys aren't coming up to me? Especially the nice ones? I swear I have to talk to them before they even say anything and when they do decide to say something they tend to keep it short and brief.

[Sinister]

It could be that with all the false attention your getting with these so-called players the good guys who are sitting intheir seats wondering how to approach you are thinking that those players are maybe what your into and then give up. Your age indicator is under 18 so that may mean so are the guys you are into. at that age most guys are shy, they haven't learned the art of seduction or game to be able to have the self-confidence to just get up and talk to any girl they want. Basically this is the age when most guys and girls are still trying to figure all this out for themselves or within their friends. Some are very horrible and some are actually quite good but lack finesse which could be classified into the douchebag category you are referring to. Now, from the way you write I can tell your a pretty blunt and straight forward girl, you should realize that there are guys who like girls just like that or sometimes wish to be like that (the blunt and straight forward part I mean) so why not start flirting smartly to guys you like and think that the chosen guy might like you, albeit secretively some girls instinctively know these things but your still learning. If you flirt and personalize it to the the guy you want to get to know then i am sure he will be more open to talk to you and then by certain things he says or the way he says them will and should be a fairly decent indicator that yes, he is into you. If the guys don't come to you, go to them, that special someone isn't just going to plop right into your lap young lady you gotta put in the work to find what the kind of guy you want. I hope this little lesson helps.

[justmesaying]

Laugh and sing have fun be yourself and join a good crowd. That will give guys a chance to join in and be closer to you. Players move fast because they only want to play.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Because your 'nice guys' are often too scared to act

[Metal189]

if you ramble on, it looks weird and they'll think you can't shut up.

[mario1321]

They want too see how you react to the doucebags