Someone please tell me why?

[Raphtaila]

Why does my fiancé think its ok to call other women cute, and call me mean names when i have done nothing to deserve being treated like shit, save there picture or go on dating apps in a commited relationship like he told me to quit my job, because he's coming into money, seriously 😒 im so mad hurt and confused. Now im out of a job bc he said he was going to support me for awhile i need help or someone to talk to

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+1 y

Why would he call another woman cute and not me but wants to take me on a trip for my birthday

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+1 y

Tell me why i look nice and he says why are you wearing makeup instead of complimenting me

[AmeerX]

You know don't jump to conclusions. Try to be patient. He might be infatuated with them but what you can do is try to see what kind of girls he likes, what type of clothes they wear, make up they use.

Try to take the hint, he might like them because of the dressing. And don't complaint too much. Guys like strong enduring women. SSometimes they do these things to scare off girls on parental guidance.

by the way, how did you two find each other? Was it parental choice?

[Raphtaila]

I lost a lot of weight and we had more sex when i was bigger we barely do the deed once a month

[AmeerX]

I think you need to spice things up in your life. Don't let it get to you if he sees other girls. Make him yours by drowning him in your love.

[Raphtaila]

I’ve tried he will only do missionary he doesn’t what to do other positions then he's done in like 3 minutes and doesn’t even try to get me off

[AmeerX]

😅 l didn't mean like that. I meant you guys go out and enjoy dinner. Walk in the park. May be go to the roadside and cuddle by the trees and so on

[AmeerX]

I think you should do things for him to keep him from looking at other women. Smolder him in your love.
If he thinks they are clean then you should bath too. May be with him too. If he likes the dresses then dress like he wants. May be even ask him if he wants to see you dance. Well you know what girls like to do?
Don't wait around to find out

[Raphtaila]

He doesn’t do pda he will barley kiss me in the elevator when were alone i cook for him i do his laundry im basically his mom

[Raphtaila]

I already do dress how he wants do my hair how he wants i do everything he asks

[AmeerX]

If he doesn't kiss you then you kiss him to show your love.
Just don't let him get the wind that you don't like him looking at other girls.

And please don't fall in the mom trap. You be his lover, let his mom be his mom.
Try to act submissive and dominant. He will not do anything to leave if you show him your love.

Otherwise don't be sad if he leaves ((

[AmeerX]

Then just skip the mom part. Don't act like his mom does. Act like his lover.

And I think you might be asking him too much.

[Raphtaila]

I dont ask him for anything

[AmeerX]

But you just said you do everything how he wants. Try to experiment a little with him. What's the type of girls he likes?

[Raphtaila]

He likes small skinny blonds with big boobs tiny waist

[Farmerboy2]

So I da like you are making a huge mistake. Time to move on from this asshole.

[Raphtaila]

So im a little chubby and i lost a lot of weight but he says he doesn’t see a difference we did more sex when i was bigger when we first met now its like once a month

[Fleet7635]

Jesus he is not doing the relationship thing right at all

[Raphtaila]

Im basically his mom

[Fleet7635]

Should be his Ex lmao

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Coz he’s taking you and your relationship for granted.

[Anonymous]

Because you allow it.