When I can consider myself an official girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

The other day we went to the restaurant and there were his friends too

He put his hand on my leg (upper knee/thigh) and kept it there most of time

Is this one of the signs or what are the signs i must look for?

Ah also his 1 friend asked me if he gonna cook for me that night

And 2nd friend said its been cold last night and that i ust warm and take care of him

Are these comments telling... or? I seeing whats not there

[Cynicaldreamer]

I'm not trying to come off as a smartass, but why not just ask him?

If the age range you posted as is accurate, you're a grown woman.
Call, or better still, next time you see him in person, ask him what he sees you as, and where does he see this relationship going. That's it.

If you've invested this much time in him, you deserve to know.

[Asker]

Im 19... i dunno what i did by mistake when register
And no
Im not asking him

[Cynicaldreamer]

You're still a grown woman 🤦‍♀️
If you don't ask, you'll never know.

Seriously, I'm not trying to be mean; that's just how it is. As far as you know, he could be stringing you along because you refuse to ask where you stand with him

[summiter]

How long have you know him? Have you gone out with him on a date or had sex with him?

[Asker]

Yes
1 year

[summiter]

I would say that qualifies as a girlfriend.

[spartan55]

You've been together a year and you don't know? How about ask him?

[Asker]

He doesn't like talk about this stuff

[spartan55]

Yeah... and? So you just hope one day he will proclaim his commitment to you? Why would he at this point? He knows you aren't going anywhere.

[Asker]

I dont get it

[Asker]

He is sick with fever and doesntwanna see me

[spartan55]

Why are you refusing to ask him?

[Asker]

It feels weird ask that

[spartan55]

Then you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship.

[boggboss]

Talk to him about it lol

[Asker]

Nop
Thats why i need opinion s from other men

[boggboss]

Tou want to be his girlfriend but your not able to speak to him and u have been together for a year no wonder your confused when u can't even communicate

[Anonymous]

How long have you been dating?

[Asker]

Like a year

[Asker]

But its 1st time im in the same place same time with his friends

[Opinion Owner]

That’s more than long enough.

[Asker]

And?