Why did he removed me from his Instagram followers?

[Anonymous]

I followed one of my dumper’s acquaintances/friends on Instagram. I was kinda interested in him. Now this friend removed me from his followers. Do you think dumper asked them to do that?

All of the people that follows him he removed me from following his page and also unfollowed. Wth? I don’t even know him that well. I was kinda interested in him and that’s the reason I followed him.

[isabelledmarieberger]

If by dumper you mean your ex, he definitively had a talk with him, if you were interested he myst have known and invoked the guy code, even if the guy is doing the dumping the ego is still there and strong some see a girl they dated having a relationship with someone they know as a blow

[Asker]

But I haven’t messaged the new guy or anything

[Asker]

And I never were official with the ex. We were just talking.

[isabelledmarieberger]

Then it's possible he has no interest in you and simply decided to unfollow, how did you get to know him?

[Asker]

I just followed him and he then followed me back. After a while he unfollowed me. Why would he decide to unfollow me of all of the 460 people that he follows?

[Asker]

It’s not like I bothered him or something

[isabelledmarieberger]

I see, this is the logical thought -- why would that person follow so many people and unfollow me, usually inyour situation it means that either you're not active and they don't see the point in following you (not everyone thinks that) or and more probbaly, he followed you because you followed him, then talked about it with the guy you know and they said some things that made him want to unfollow you to either prove he won't hang out with you or send you the message indirectly that it won't happen.

[Asker]

How common is this behaviour with guys? I only went put once with the guy that dumped me. We did talk for months though

[isabelledmarieberger]

it's very common, it's not about how many times or who dumped who more their relationship, so it feels unfair but find some new guy

[Guy13]

If they are close friends then you're out. If they are not and neither one really values you then they will be comparing notes.

[Anonymous]

Why do you even give a fuck?