No idea what this is?

Met on tinder about 3 weeks ago for a hook up. Discovered we are extremely similar in behaviours and thoughts, we can even finish each other's sentences and have both said it's an intense connection. Says my thinking reminds me of his mother.

Slept together twice since - once was without kissing as he said it's too relationshipy - I said I'm not comfortable with that and I left, he has also stayed the night at mine without doing anything.

He's a bit hot and cold with communicating but we'll hang out just as friends, no touching, kissing etc and just talk. Have also been fishing and he's been at mine for dinner.

His dad video called him whilst he was here the other day... he introduced my son and I to his dad - we only met 3 weeks ago - he was also talking me up to his dad saying that I have a good job and own my own home...

He messaged me and said he's returning home for Christmas in a couple of days and said we could catch up if I wanted before he goes. Depending on hos job, he'll be back here after the holidays.

Any thoughts on this situation as I have no idea what is going on

No idea what this is?
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