So we work together and have been really good friends for 6 months. He always kinda follows me around like a puppy. He always stands behind me when he should be working at other spots. He likes to poke me and stuff. For a week or so he would like poke my arm or lightly kick my leg or something because I pretended it “scared me” for jokes. One time he came behind me to “scare me” and he kinda put his hands on my sides. He always butts into my covos with my close friends no matter what we’re talking about. But here’s the kicker… He often gets snarky with me & always makes my issues so little and make it out to seem like everything is worse for him. What does that mean? He doesn’t do it to anyone else. He has low self esteem though. He also had a girlfriend but they broke up pretty fast. Back then I thought he really liked me, but when he got a girlfriend I thought otherwise. He doesn’t text me ever, but we did text for a few days one time. He begged me and begged me to send him a photo for a contact photo of me even when I said I didn’t have any good photos of me. He then sent me multiple photos to “choose from” to set as his contact photo. He also said he hates to admit it but he likes to see me at work and talk to me about things. what does this mean? He also said that I was his favorite person, but he also said his ex he was in love with was his favorite person and it hurt him to say someone was his favorite person. Then he replied to my text with “ur my favorite person”. I’m not sure if he was serious. Then he kinda started dry texting me and my friends told me to ignore him so I did and now he ignores me and I feel so bad and am not sure how to fix it or even what we are to each other. Please help Kinda like him as more than a friend, just don’t think he feels the same. Also he’s never really rude to anyone but me and I’m not sure why. Like sometimes he won’t speak to me & just ignores me but will speak to literally everyone else. What do I make of this behavior?
Do you have friends at work?
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Well, I have a female Business partner that is definitely a friend and some staff members who are and are not. None of them are going to flirt with me.
I would not make to much of it. Being at work is lot different from being alone outside of a restrained environment. Lots of flirty people go cold in groups outside of work. Anyway, hope it works out as you wish.
He wants to smash. That's it. If it wasn't you, it would be someone else. It's purely circumstantial
Yes, but only a few right now. I think he has a crush on you.