When someone accuses you of being obsessed with a guy do they mean in a stalker way or in a deeply infatuated way?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[Crafteroon]

If they meant deeply infatuated, they should say deeply infatuated. If they say obsessed, they should mean obsessed.

Using incorrect words for greater impact is the fast track for disaster. Don't say love if it's just liking them deeply.

[20yearsolder]

Most of the time it means you're just infatuated with them, if you're following them and watching them then you're a fucking stalker. Which one are you?

[Anonymous]

Bekaaaaaaahhhh--why obsess? You're an attractive girl with spectacular hooters. Just have sex with the dude and get it out of your system. Win-win!

[TallAnon]

Culture really matters here, if someone mentioned that where I'm from, we'd be thinking about restraining orders, lol

[motownplayer2000]

Stalker. But being obsessed with someone or something isn’t healthy in the first place

[Summeroflove]

Totally depends on context

[Alex8736]

who is the accuser? a boyfriend?