I was talking to this guy who said he liked me and I liked him too. But when I wanted to make it official he said it wouldn't work because we are long distance and he needs to be with someone close to him.
At the same time I knew he was friends with another girl and I asked him if he liked her since I heard him call her pretty once but he acted like I was crazy saying "what makes you think I like her?". And he told me I was special and the only girl he talks till he falls asleep.
But after a while I felt tired of us not making it official so I broke off our "situationship"
Literally two days later I see he made it official with the same girl he said he didn't like on his social media and they are even long distance too. What gives?
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He was lying to you. Isn't it obvious. He was playing both of you
But how is he playing her when he made it official with her?
What I'm saying is, he was talking with the both of you at the same time. Then when it got serious with both of you, he had to choose one. Unfortunately you weren't the winner. You're probably better off. Like I said he was playing with two women at the same time
Dang I guess you're right. He lied to me so I guess I'm glad I'm not the winner. Should I warn the other girl. I do know her even tho we aren't super close.
Nope, it's not any of your business. She probably wouldn't listen to you anyway. She probably just think you're a bitch and pissed off because he didn't choose you
Ok. Dang I got played big time. He told me he was in a rough spot financially and I gave him money so he wouldn't be on the streets. Because I really cared about him. But I guess I was just a bank to him 😔
Evidently she gave him more lol
Well she had to because I cut him off
Keep your mouth shut. She'll find out for herself. Word of advice - stop doing long distance relationships. They're bullshit, and maybe one in 1,000 end up with people getting together.
@loveslongnails what would happen bad if I warn her?
When the jilted girl tries to warn the current lover, she's perceived as vindictive, jealous and a liar. You don't know her personally either. The very best you could hope for is you had a face to face and could calmly tell her to "be careful and keep your eyes open". Since you can't do that, I suggest staying out of it and using your energy in a more positive way.