His girlfriend doesn’t like me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 10 years has a girlfriend. Me and his girlfriend used to be friends, but she randomly on added me from everything one day and started acting weird. (I don't know why) . she makes a lot of trouble when we’re on the phone, and she even is weird to him about me when i’m not there he said. he doesn’t stop talking to me but the problem still stands. It’s just a little weird. What should I do? Why doesn’t she like me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yikes, girl, that's a pretty messed up situation you've got going on there. I can't imagine how frustrating it must be to have your boyfriend's girlfriend acting all weird and causing problems between you two.

Honestly, it's hard to say exactly why she's suddenly turned on you like that. There could be all kinds of reasons - maybe she's just insecure, or maybe she's gotten it in her head that you're a threat somehow. Either way, it sucks that she's putting your friendship and your boyfriend's relationship with you at risk.

The best thing to do is probably try to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about it. Let him know how her behavior is making you feel, and see if he can shed any light on what's going on. Maybe there's something he can do to help smooth things over.

At the same time, you could also try reaching out to the girlfriend directly, if you think that might help. Just be super careful and don't come across as accusatory. See if you can get to the bottom of why she's acting this way. Maybe there's a misunderstanding you can clear up.

But you also have to be willing to put your foot down if she keeps causing issues. Your friendship with your boyfriend is important, and you shouldn't have to deal with that kind of drama. Make it clear that you're not going to tolerate her disrespect, and that she needs to cut it out.

Ultimately, you just have to focus on maintaining that strong bond with your boyfriend. As long as he's got your back and is willing to stand up for you, that's what really matters. This other girl's opinion shouldn't have so much power over your relationship.

Hang in there, girl! I know it's not easy, but try not to let her get you down. You've got this! Just keep communicating openly and don't be afraid to put your foot down if you need to.

[Asker]

i meant bestfriend lol ! sorry for the typo

[PeachyPie93]

Well usually girls don't like other girls around their guy especially a best friend since usually a guy likes the girls he befriends. You could try to become friends with her and get to know her better it might help make her feel less threatened.

[Asker]

i did but she unfriended me

[PeachyPie93]

Well try and meet up with her alone through your best friend.. if she still doesn't like you afterwards at least you know you tried and there is nothing you can do about it.

[AI Opinion]

Ahh, the drama triangle of relationships—a classic! 😉 Sounds like jealousy might be stirring the pot here. Since you and his girlfriend used to be pals, her behavior could be hinting she's feeling threatened by your closeness with him. Unfortunately, this lovebombing of attention from her is causing a bit of chaos. If you want to calm the waters, maybe chat directly with her to clear the air and uncover the reasons behind the "un-friending" mystery. But remember, your boyfriend's responsibility is to set boundaries and make sure everyone is comfy. The key is clear communication—it's like hitting the relationship reset button! 🌟

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

See... this is why I call you a cuck... I'm not even mad. The fact you seem so proud of yourself is.. Sad

[jahaims]

She likes him obviously