When I told a guy I like him he said ‘oh that’s good then glad to hear it’ ?

[Anonymous]

Is this a good answer that he cares and wants to get to know me.. or a no!

[Avishh]

Scenario (1) I don't think he is attracted towards you, but he definitely wants to give you chance or keep you around. Usually guys who are sexually attracted towards a women they try to set the dinner dates so that they can eventually move things to their place after the date. Also during the date they do lot of touching and eye contact to intensify the attraction. A lunch date on the other hand is a good sign that he wants you no more than a friend.


Scenario (2) If a guy is hella shy or not confident can behave the way he did. As soon as you told him that you like him, he didn’t know what to say. A lunch date in this scenario would totally make sense because he is probably too scare to ask for a dinner. And there’s good possibility that he is not gonna make a move. A good way to tell, if he talk about lot of achievements he has received he is into you, but to much of a pussy to tell you.

[Summeroflove]

I know some people aren’t direct. Try seeing if he wants a date. If he takes no initiative or seems to want to make plans.

I say it’s best to move on. Maybe he’s being nice

[Asker]

Yes he asked me to have lunch together for new year day 31 December. He asked for it when we met last time. This will be our 2nd meeting.
But last time we met it was our first meeting and we simply had lunch and coffee after we talked very chill no touching or anything considering we just met! Even though no touching etc I noticed him staring and looking at my eyes for long seconds as if he wanted me too lol back too as he did. When we walked side by side he would lightly wrap his arm around me to show where to turn..
I don't know
Because of what he told me I’m not sure if I should go out for lunch or not. I’m
Debating with myself

[Summeroflove]

Oh well this is a good sign then sorry

[Summeroflove]

If you’re dating well…. Seems like things are going good

[Vikkrram]

I think it's a nicer way of getting rejected

[spartan55]

Uh... that's a no.