Guy had a girlfriend but didn't tell me?

[Anonymous]

A guy was flirting with me and had a girlfriend but never mentioned her. I confronted him and he said he won't tell if i won't? Why should i get in trouble with him when he was the one cheating?

[coachTanthony]

We haven't did anything. I confronted him before anything could happen. We only flirted on the phone. Now he ignores my messages.

Why are you still messaging him after finding out he has a girlfriend? Why is it that when women find out the guy is taken they just want him even more?

[Asker]

I’m not still messaging him. I told him we can’t be friends then blocked him.

[coachTanthony]

You left that part out.

[Cynicaldreamer]

"I confronted him and he said he won't tell if i won't?" He better get his ass out of here! He cheated yet he's threatening you?

I would get his girlfriend's number or social media information and tell herself myself. What an entitled twit. Something tells me he's done this before- and I feel bad for his girlfriend. I suggest you distance yourself from him, don't give him anymore of your attention; he's really not worth it.

[Lynnfriend]

There is no harm in a little flirting, there is a lot of variables you have to consider like how long had you known the guy? If you recently met he may not have had an appropriate opportunity to discuss his personal life. You should explain to him you don't flirt with involved men if your not comfortable with it.

[Purpul]

[Oh, so you would have been ok with it if he did tell you… 🤷🏾‍♂️. There is a time and place. If you liked him, just enjoy. His problem is that he is not honest with his primary-girl, since he made it clear she doesn’t know.]

[Asker]

Uh no I suspect he’s a serial cheater. A month later he broke up with his girlfriend. I feel bad for any poor soul who’s his girlfriend.

[Asker]

No. I never knew he had a girlfriend to begin with. His Facebook page has no pictures of her. I remember seeing at my brother graduation him with a girl. I thought was his sister, he’s biracial and his sister is white. The girl he was with was biracial. I thought that was a another sister he had. I was able to find her Facebook and she was the only one with pictures of them. If I was never at the graduation I would been fucked. Thank god I was. Some guys really are disgusting. I despise the ones who act single and don’t post any girlfriend pictures because they for sure are cheating.

[Purpul]

[And how did you get involved with him… you both attracted each other. I will commend you for making the right decision for you. That’s it.]

[Lynnfriend]

Well the way I understood the it was that they didn't really know each other very well or she would have know he had a girlfriend. When your just getting to know someone you learn about them in bits and pieces. Maybe he wasn't really flirting he was just being himself. Was he trying to get her to go out with him or something more. If he was than that would be wrong and I would not be ok with that however if he never talks about himself or his life than maybe he is hiding things from you. But the comment was out of line and I would probably stop taking to him. But I think the question lacked information to really form a god opinion.

[Summeroflove]

Leave him be. Don’t be someone someone cheats with. That makes you low. Even from a selfish perspective if someone will cheat with you. The chances of being cheated on are very high.

[spartan55]

Well, you shouldn't, unless you don't care about that type of thing. If he does it behind her back he will do it behind yours. His reply tells me he's an absolute selfish shitbag.

[humanearth]

Look sounds like he is not marriage material, but at least you can catch an STD from him

Something to always to remember him by

[Anonymous]

Don't deal with cheaters. It never works out.

[Asker]

We haven't did anything. I confronted him before anything could happen. We only flirted on the phone. Now he ignores my messages.

[AmeerX]

Obviously he wasn't happy. Just tell him to break up with her if he wants you. Set him straight for his priorities

[Anonymous]

Cut off with him and don't be afraid. You haven't done anything wrong

[Anonymous]

He wants to see wether you're a bitch or not.

[Asker]

What do you mean? It sounds like he was trying to get me in trouble with him because he cheated.

[fa6umaaxoxx]

He cheated on her he gonna do same as he did if you choose him..

[QuietVerbena]

You did nothing wrong

[Iron_Man]

Leave no good

[Asker]

We haven't did anything. I confronted him before anything could happen. We only flirted on the phone. Now he ignores my messages.

[Iron_Man]

Walk away now

[LiamJHayden]

He wants to keep you as a side chick.

[collie22]

I just let it go

[In_Trance]

Block him