Why didn’t he tell me he had a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So basically I met this guy at school, we started to get along and talk and spent a lot of time together, I came to my classes fully dressed up with my best makeup. I kept flirting and then asked for his instagram and he gave it to me, we then started connecting on there and he would like my stories etc as we got closer in real life as well. But out of no where like last week I heard him talk to his friends showing them his girlfriend. I feel disappointed but I still like him and I don’t know what to do, should I wait for him or is he not worth it since he is sneaky? I really like him and don’t want to let him go :/

[_Maya_]

Wait for him? Wait for him to do what? He is in a relationship. That means that he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you or at least that was the direction it was likely headed. Let's say he broke up with his girlfriend today. Would you want to then get into a relationship with someone you know is capable of cheating or will at least entertain the idea? I would never trust this guy. You are best to move on from him because as they say once a cheater always a cheater and this guy seems to have no problem with the idea.

[Monalisa77]

Sucks but its one of the first things i think about when guys start acting interested

[jahaims]

He is a cheater obviously. Why would you want to date a cheater. Have some self respect.

[boggboss]

What do u mean should u wait for him wait fir what he has a girlfriend

[Asker]

wait for him to be single , because I like him a lot but I think I should just forget about him and not bother

[boggboss]

If this is how he acts when he has a girlfriend wpuld u be happy if u was his girlfriend and him acting like this if not why wpuld u wait for him

[Asker]

I just feel annoyed after I put in a bit of effort and it feels like it was all for nothing

[boggboss]

It is unfortunate

[In_Trance]

Because if he can smash n dash why would he?

[Asker]

I don’t know I just think it’s weird because he would flirt with me and hang with me in front of all his friends that knew he was taken.