Guys are attracted to me and show an interest in me it seems like it than over time they lose it. Why can't I attract a guy but can’t keep interested?

[laurlaur101]

[Guy13]

You’re too young and have no life experience, therefore, Hot is all you have.
Read books rather than SM and TV. Read in areas that you never thought about. Philosophy say Thomas Aquinas. Quantum Physics. ANYTHING that is not common cultural crap 💩

[laurlaur101]

You’re right in the experience part I haven’t been in a lot of relationships to know I feel that I’m behind everyone else in a lot of ways but I guess I’m going at my own pace don’t want to rush anything either

[Guy13]

Reading and knowledge seeking is not rushing... especially at a coffee house. ;-)

[bluespeed0]

Maybe you tell them of your past boyfriends, or you have a long sexual history... as a woman you need to have as little sexual partners as possible. Men are deep down attracted to innocent virgins, at least if they are considering you wife material.

[laurlaur101]

Well that wouldn’t be the case I hardly ever had anyone I had a few back in middle school that were kinda pointless but didn’t last so I don't know if you count 2 of those as relationships or not I’ve never actually been in a real long term relationship and never done anything anyways so makes me innocent lol

[jshm2]

Because you may be a bit attractive. But you likely have a shit personality, and no charm. Or are boring as fuck.

Guys (and lesbians) don't like vanilla relationships.

[laurlaur101]

I treat everyone nice and not a jerk I like to have fun tho but I when I first meet people I don’t want to show all sides of me yet bc don’t want to give away too much too soon have to be a bit mysterious keep people guessing I don't know if I’m boring or not I don't know

[spartan55]

In general: mysterious=annoying

[Vikkrram]

Maybe you are too hard to get like don't get much out, don't have friends much and i guess you also don't have much guy friends.

[laurlaur101]

What do you mean? I do have a few female friends and some guy friends but never hang out with some of the guy friends

[Vikkrram]

Yeah that's why maybe you guarding yourself without knowing it.

But i would say that don't be sad coz you don't want f*** boys coming close to you.