Why would my guy friend seem highly shocked at my saying my LDR boyfriend only stays for 2-3 when he visits?

[Anonymous]

He like tried to have a say in it like “is that all”

[Truth0225]

I don’t think that’s his place to be saying anything, that’s your relationship, and him commenting sounds like he is trying to make ur boyfriend a shitty person for saying 2-3 days. I think you need to tell him that he is your friend but he has no right to comment on your relationship

[Asker]

Right? Like if that’s all he can make it’s nobody business definitely not his when he doesn’t know the reasons or the ins and outs of the situation.

[Truth0225]

Right but you have to say something and make it known that he’s crossing the line. And if I were to guess, he is probably talking like that bc he likes u and is hoping u guys break up.

[Asker]

Yeah I do not talk to this man outside of work now because he also tried to say guys who take a certain medication my boyfriend is on dicks don’t work. That was a line crosser. I know his games.

[Truth0225]

Yeah this guy isn’t your friend he just wants you and believes talking shit about your boyfriend will land u. I hate guys like that

[SnowedIn]

Why? Because he's silly. That's not something to comment on. Ignore him -- don't even respond.

[Asker]

Yeah just because he would dedicate more time doesn’t mean he’s a better person or would be a better partner he doesn’t know the reason or the guy or the situation so I should just forget about mentioning it to him and say my relationship is my business when he asks

[SnowedIn]

YES! Well said! Like wft dude... mind your own business.

[spartan55]

'guy friend' that you work with? Why do you even care what he says?

[KrakenAttackin]

My "guy friend"...