He’s an extroverted person but whenever he’s near me he looks nervous and awkward and doesn’t talk to me but talks with everyone else?

[alyssageline]

we do track together and he talks with a lot of people. he's an extroverted person yet when he sees me or is near me he is suddenly quiet? or he would look awkward and nervous when im nearby. its like he’s suddenly different. but then off into the distance i would see him going to people and talking, etc. he would look at me most of the times and just not say anything. whenever the guys on my team would joke at me with my coach and my friend, he would not even say a word or join in. he would just listen trying not to look like he is. but he just noticeably glances/looks at me would sit near me at the bus, things like that. all the guys on my team talk with me yet he just doesn’t but he listens. he talks with everyone else including my friend. any thoughts about this or advice on why that is?

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i had another track meet yesterday and when he first arrived to the place we waited to wait for the bus he started suddenly talking directly to me and joking w me a lot more out of the blue.. he did that throughout the meet and even cheered for me at my event so loud. my bag spilled w pickle juice on it and the ball we had to use smelled like it. so on the bus (we sat next to eachother on different aisles AGAIN) he asked to smell the ball and so i gave it to him and we touched/brushed hands?

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cont. he also asked me for goldfish on the bus, and kept looking at me at the meet. one time i was talking to my coach on the bleachers and he was kinda behind him to the left (i was facing him) on his phone looking down and he suddenly shifted his head to my direction to see me more- i had my phone w me on our event and i took a picture w my friends and wandered around and i can feel he was trying to see my screen at times. any more thoughts?

[kylee2437]

Being extroverted doesn’t necessarily mean you vibe with everyone, being extroverted just means you are charged by being in outgoing situations. Maybe he just doesn’t feel a reason to talk to you/ maybe he senses that you secretly have this attraction to him.

[dustybiker]

He could either like you and is thrown off, or he thinks you like him and doesn’t seem to know how to handle it. You could ask and find his reasoning.

[Luciferstar]

He's either got a huge crush on you or he's already fallen for you, We men usually don't talk to person we have a crush on but still try to be around them as much as we can. So might be you wanna look into that aspect.

[SnowedIn]

He likes you. As in likes you like you. Take the bull by the horns and start talking to him.

And, posting what is essentially the same question four times isn't going to get you more or better answers:

[spartan55]

Thank you for calling this out. Shit drives me nuts.

[SnowedIn]

@spartan55 ... thanks. Like, I don't mind answering questions. And, actually, I don't necessarily mind asking more than once. BUT... this is excessive.

[spartan55]

@snowedin
Dude, unfortunately it gets WAY more excessive than this example. I'll tag you the next time I spot one of the serial offenders.

[SnowedIn]

@spartan55 ... I'd enjoy seeing! :)

[Anonymous]

I think guys worry too much about the size of their penis size. I mean sure a big penis is much more satisfying sexually but there's more to a relationship than mind blowing sex.

[spartan55]

You already posted this several times. Why?

[Vikkrram]

I was about to say this thanks @spartan55