Do you think men care about this?

[Anonymous]

Do you think men care and like women that are very successful. Very rich and have achieved so much at a young age?

Yes I think men care

No I don’t think they care at all

[SueShe]

No, I don't think that men care or even like that women are successful and/or rich.

The reason is simple. They perceive those women as direct competitors to them. Since men have always thought of themselves as being more intelligent and richer than women, that would put a big dent in their ego if they would openly admit that they like women that can equal them or even be better than them at so many things.

When the ego is bruised, then denial is the reply that follows and I can see that kind of reaction everywhere around me. A good example of bruised ego would be this British-American guy Andrew Tate that is openly misogynistic and hates women because they dare to be successful. Not only does he hate them but has also a history of raping them.

Young boys are literally being groomed at an early stage through social media to hate women.

All this brainwashing leads to men disliking successful women. Of course not everyone. It would be wrong to put them all in the same basket.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually the reason most of us don't care is because we aren't gold diggers, we want to date a woman, not a bank or a company.

Most men do not refuse nor dislike successful or wealthy women, we simply do not see it as required, while things like beauty and common interests very much are.

So, if given the choice between: 1. a broke, jobless woman whos cute and has everything in common with me interest/hobby wise, or 2. a successful businesss woman who's either not physically attractive, or doesn't have stuff in common with me, I'm always going to choose the former, because I don't give 2 shits about getting any of her income.

Also, most guys LOVE competition, so thats not really a reason for anything.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Simply put, you can't buy a guy's love.

[PrettyPriya]

Why don't you tell us? You are a guy. Do you like your women rich and successful? You do realize of course that those often do not go hand in hand. Being rich is also very subjective. What is rich to one person is a pittance to another depending on their lifestyle.

I would much more care about the success from hard work and good attitude than how much someone has in their pocketbook. The value of a hard working person is much greater than those with a lot of money.

Success is measured in all sorts of ways. Money is purely a numbers thing. You can be the most successful teacher but still not make a heck of a lot of money. I would still value that person contribution to the world much more valuable than the idiot living off his/her parent's inheritance that didn't work for a bit of it.

So, what is more important to you?

[WonderBell99]

Possibly the dentist guy again?😐

[PrettyPriya]

@WonderBell99 He would be far too busy cleaning dental tools for his assistants to make his 367th account.

[DaveJord]

I will be honest when I was younger it did not matter to me in the least. But since divorce, and getting back into the singles scene, it's kind of is a big deal to me. I make over 100K a year, and I have been successful and accomplished in my professional career... and I just do not have all that much in common with women who have not has the same type of success. Plus, when you are with someone that makes the same money as you, then you can get twice the enjoyment out of sharing things and doing things together at have the price or work required to pay for it all... this really expands or horizons on all the things that are now twice as much more possible to do as far as travel, nicer hotels and 1st class versus economy on flights.

[PinkRose24]

So you're a golddigger?

[Tellme]

I am married to a successful woman. She tells me that often, men seem to have self-esteem issues if the woman is more successful than them.
I find it easy to accept that she is more successful than me, and in a way I also like it and I'm proud of her. The only difficulty for me is, that successful women often put their job first. They spend most of their energy at their job, and there's only little time and energy left for the partner. That is frustrating for me at times.

[UniquelyBasic]

a lot probably do care to an extent but not care as to want her money, I guess. Its important that she has things going on in her life.

[Pohjolan]

They care a little as in a study suggested that women care 300 times more about a mans income than men about women's.

So a guy earning say 100 000 in a year equals a woman earning 30 000 000 in a year.

[Anonymous]

Most guys don't care. It's not a priority for us the way it is for women. It can actually be a turnoff because of female hypergamy and the problems that often causes in relationships.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Water finds its own level.

[Guy13]

Yes we do.

[artsy_dragon]

Nit sure

[Nazgol]

Some do