I really need to hear a mans opinion on this?

[Foreverpetty21]

Basically long story short.
there has been this guy I was talking to for 2 years on and off and we finally decided to meet each other.

it’s like every-time we do good and kicking it off he just flips immediately like turns off his feelings
lol like one moment everything is going well and then he just gets mad suddenly even before we met

this was our first time meeting and everything once again was going well. You know the usual the kisses, the hugs, the conversation, & cuddling then suddenly he was about to go and I offered to pay for him to go home and he suddenly just got mad that I offered and then he has not talked to me for like 4 weeks now. Like this is not the first time we got in argument and we stopped talking and cut off contact but he always comes back but I just know why he does this

[John8298]

You are probably his side piece and whenever his girl doesn't give him enough attention he'll use you to feel better.

[Foreverpetty21]

😂😂😂 not the side piece 😂😂

[spartan55]

Keep telling yourself that.

[Foreverpetty21]

Noo like I’m laughing at what you said and being sarcastic & you never tbh I can take constructive criticism. Probably was someone else but I never knew or found anything soo

[spartan55]

No idea what you are talking about.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there.. or worse still#, as in your case.. it's like nitro and glycerin..

[Jamessmith3838]

Are u chubby not to be mean but I notice girls and guys don’t seem to wanna date the chubby one

[Foreverpetty21]

Not at all lol I never had that problem and I’m pretty sure if he wasn’t attracted to me he would’ve left quick as hell 😂😂 like if I was a catfish

[Jamessmith3838]

People honestly just play lots of games now I notice that getting back into the dating pool and the body acceptance thing is bullshit it’s just like something people pretend to support

[Foreverpetty21]

What hell no? I seen your body and it’s attractive as hell you just looking in the wrong area. Because your body type is literally perfect but my friends that are physically attractive like diamonds they love chubbier men I recommend it too I don’t like skinny men like that tbh lmao because I have hips it just depends where you look and how you represent yourself

[Jamessmith3838]

Well when I was chubby I wasn’t getting laid

[Jamessmith3838]

Yea that represent stuff is just something people say to fat people so they can feel good about themselves like with the new thing on tiktok with girls showing their fat bellies

[Foreverpetty21]

It all depends on where you stay tbh ! Like have you noticed like you see prettier women in different parts of the United states. Like a lot of men typically think west coast women are the finest women but if you go to the south you might be a 6 . Different beauty standards everywhere. Go to the west you would get laid and the Eastcoast

[Foreverpetty21]

LMAOOOOO not tik tok I’m laughing rn omg. But like I said honestly it depends on where you are. You have to have some meat on your body where I’m from and where I stay

[spartan55]

Because you allow it.

[Foreverpetty21]

Lol that too 😂 I tried to cut it off I did the cuss out and the leave me alone. Never worked

[spartan55]

Because you let him come back no matter how shitty he treats you.

[Foreverpetty21]

I wouldn’t say all that 😂 he never actually really disrespected me we just had disagreements and led to a cut off

[Robert_]

I kinda feel like he wanted more to happen...

[Foreverpetty21]

That could definitely be it. 😂
But I was not going to allow that to happen at that moment

[Foreverpetty21]

But like what about the other times he always just pulls back

[Robert_]

He could be wondering if you are worth the effort..

[Foreverpetty21]

Listen Robert 😂😂😂😂 I blocked this man 4 times and told him to leave me alone. He has to think I’m worth a little something 😭

[Robert_]

Maybe but then I am wondering why you even considered meeting up. These should have been red flags.

[Foreverpetty21]

Robert me too …. me too trust me 😂 it was just in the moment because I was in their state I was just like “ might as well “

[Robert_]

So what attracts you to him?

[Foreverpetty21]

Honestly it was just the way he carried himself I was attracted to him mentally. I liked the way he thought and how we were able to speak on different subjects of things Because trust me I don’t date for money or for looks. I would say I’m pretty attractive and I’ve dated a lot but I don’t settle due to your status of money/looks but this one I just liked and usually that first block with me there is no coming back but this I don't know I just was like “ let me just unlock him and see “ 😂

[Foreverpetty21]

Plus he was 6 years older than me soo that could be it 😂 who knows

[Robert_]

Well he might be trying to protect him from being hurt. But is at the same time really interested in you. You paying for him to go home might have felt a bit belittling to him.

[Foreverpetty21]

That’s what other men said 😂 but I was not trying to belittle him. Where I’m from it’s just being nice and just showing I got your back and I explained that and he still was irritated

[Robert_]

Yeah but he might feel like he isn't good enough for you. And this could just have been what pushed him over the edge.

[Foreverpetty21]

Robert you are officially my friend I love talking to you 😂😂 you are my favorite person at the moment

[Foreverpetty21]

That couldve been it. I’m not going to put everything out there but I could understand for him feeling like that