Am I the only one who thinks that men who just get overly annoyed at a girl with small breasts is kind of sexist?

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I have seen on YouTube so many comments of some 'men' who criticized some models with small breasts! Well the only thing that i have to say is that women with small breast look more proportional in my opinion and that they do not suffer from back aches and i can confirm that as a proud girl with small breasts! I don't have anything against women with big breasts but I really think that men need to stop being to picky!! Also the thing that i wanted to say is that i heard that when a girl has a really beautiful or unique face which attracts a lot of attention has usually small breasts. Of course that doesn't mean that all girls with small breasts are beautiful but i know many who are! That said I think that men who only care about the outer appearance and not the personality of a woman just isn't a real Man!

letsbelovin · Accepted Answer

Clearly those blokes who make those comments have never been taught, or have no innate sense of respect for anyone, or self-respect for that matter. When a person judges someone else, it is merely a reflection of who they are as a person.

For anyone, male or female, to criticise a girl on her breast size clearly has some self-esteem and insecurity issues, otherwise why would they be so ready to criticise? They do it to make themselves feel better, to make themselves feel superior in some way because of their own lack of self-worth.

Personally I love small breasts equally as much as larger breasts. I have dated women with both, but that was not their defining feature, their defining feature is who they are as a person.

What's interesting is how one person can be more attractive to someone than another? And of course we all have our favourite things we like regarding physical attributes in someone. That's what makes us all unique, we all have our own preferences. We know when we see someone whether we're attracted to them or not, and to me that's regardless of breast size.

I'm attracted to slim women, curvy women or somewhere in between. As a male of the species, I see in a woman how she looks after herself, which is way more important than breast size. If she cares for her health and respects her body, that is a very attractive trait.

If she drinks like a fish or smokes or swears like a trooper and is rough and unwomanly, or any of the above, then regardless of how she looks, to me those traits make her extremely unattractive, and one to avoid like the plague.

Respect your body and it will pay you in dividends with a healthy life. Treat your body with poisons, whether that be over-eating, rubbish food, drugs or alcohol and it will also pay you in dividends, but only with dividends in suffering, mentally and physically.

I've seen many attractive women who spend hours at the gym, yet as soon as they're outside, light up a fag. I seriously don't get that. To me it makes them look superficial and vain, that they're purely focused on their looks, and don't really care about their health, which for me is a major turn off. However, it's their choice and I'm sure they don't care what I think anyway, so I'm not going to openly criticise them about it, I just won't worry about them :P

So I wouldn't get too hung up on worrying about breast size, or what others think, people who criticise others have their own issues to deal with, there's so much more to each of us as a person that makes us either attractive or unattractive, not just to someone else, but to ourselves :)

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

1. Men don't get "overly annoyed" at small breasts. Hell, most of the men on this site like tiny boobs and flat chested women (for some reason). This is an imaginary problem, created by women.

2. Even IF there were men who didn't like small breasts, who cares? I for one don't prefer flat chests on women (it's like the equivalent of a penis being under seven inches for women; not preferable or ideal), but you're not going to dump someone over it. Unless you're a shallow jerk or something.

3. It's not "sexist" for men to have preferences. This is the same BS trannies try to pull when straight men don't want to f*ck transwomen (which are dudes), and it's equally as annoying. No one is obligated to like you or sleep with you, and if a man said any of this stuff you're saying, everyone from both genders would be calling him an incel. So knock it off!

4. WOMEN are the picky sex! Seriously. Women have simps and inflated egos nowadays; of course they're the picky ones! Me being a short sh*t, I could just as easily tell women to stop demanding men over six feet tall or for tall women to shut up about "short girls stealing 'their' men," as if tall men owe you anything or that men under six feet are literally undateable like they have leprosy, AIDS, and COVID all at the same time. Women are the "picky ones!"

5. The only personality trait most women seem to care about in a man is confidence. And possibly his level of obedience/subservience. Literally nothing else beyond that matters to so many women out there. Many guys may also not care that much about personality either, but unlike women, they're in no position to get away with it.

I know you're young and all and don't have much experience in dating and whatnot, but all of this needed to be said. I hope you understand it. 'Not to offend.'

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yay and now this thread turns into a bodyshaming post, bashing women with big breasts
Sorry but I've experienced the exact opposite.. Men and women belittling women with big breasts saying that they sag, aren't perky. If you look at most questions on this forum, you'll see that most men actually prefer small breasts nowadays and that big breasts aren't trendy anymore.

I also don't agree with you, or the guy who said that big breasts look out of proportion. It really depends on the girl. For example, if she has wide hips, big breasts will look proportionate. Everyone's entitled to their own preferences, but I don't understand why we need to body shame others, for something out of their control, especially when it comes to something so trivial, such as breasts..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I totally agree with you! Some men/boys are so superficial just looking at how women/girls look. I have small breasts also and I would rather have small ones than have big ones where like you said they hurt your back. I've had boys say rude comments to me and I've heard them say rude comments to girls with big breasts. It is sexsist. But as a girl when I see a hot boy or guy that has sexy abs versus a boy/man that is fatter I make judgements about them too. So all though boys/men are sexsist I guess girls/women are too. I've heard girls say some pretty rude things to boys in school that are as bad if not worse than what I've heard boys say to girls.

UnknownReflection · Answer

Well said.

Not only breasts, but I'd agree on what you said about all the shapes and sizes across the board toward both men and women.

Physical attributions are literally out of our conscious control. And out there in the real world, there are far more important factors than just one's body part's shapes and sizes.

Therefore, small breast or large breast, each woman is beautiful in their own way and these differences in the size, shape and color is what makes every woman unique and exceptional in their own rights.

However, in my experience, most men don't really care about breast size that much. Magically enough, men are just attracted to female breast whatever size! the fun fact is, female's breasts activate "Dopamine" in men's brain instantly, which is the same hormone that is released when a person feels happy during an activity. It's also an addictive hormone. Dopamine is what released when someone using drugs or developing any activity as a habit, which the brain keeps tempting the person to repeat that habit all over again in order to feel the doze of dopamine which is why getting over a habit/addiction can be difficult as well as explains the obsession men hold over women's breasts.

Anonymous · Answer

I like this question and I like the way that you have answered it hard way that you see it it could be true for me I don't take a girl because of her breasts I don't even see her breasts even if I look at them because I'm trying to figure out who the person is on the inside that's all I care about yes I have a buddy it's just an extra bonus when you find the girl do you like within that's where the beauty comes from that's where the kindness comes from that's where her smarts come from that's where her confidence comes from is that energy Within and no matter what her boob size is I could really care less because I like to go on the inside now don't get me wrong then there becomes a Time to really look at the outside and that's just an extra bonus I always liked it girls with smaller breast because I always thought they would have more sensation and that turns me on going to find out all boobs have sensation LOL so for me it's a package deal it starts from who she is on the inside that radiates to the outside I don't know too many guys that pick girls because of the size of their boobs I don't think want to certain size I want the boob to fit the girl that's what gives her character and now you know what I need anyway I like your question

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Tbh with you marianna, idc about a woman's boobs cause that's shallow and stupid, i need a girl for love and marriage, w girl who loves me from all her heart and does anything for me and makes me happy, in the end she still have boobs and all the other package and i don't care about the size and shape, what i care about is her heart and the way she acts and behaves...

Men who gives a lot of importance about a woman'a body ate men who are seeking for sexual pleasure and one nights stand only!

boggboss · Answer

This seems like more of a rant that anything objective small breasts have nothing to do with a women having a attractive face lol plus yes some men are picky but if a guy don't find small breats attractive he can't just turn that off and then like them it's not how attraction works

LiamSawyer · Answer

Myself I prefer small breasts as they're usually sensitive, firm and perky, they rarely get all saggy and will never cause the back, neck or shoulder pain that large heavy breasts can sometimes cause. I would say that physical appearance, such as a girl with a pretty face like yours, is often the first attraction for a guy to a woman but for a lasting relationship personality is the most important feature.

jasco · Answer

So are you ok with women being not being picky with small dick? most women would not be happy with that. 2nd standards exist for a reason. One other thing, the outer and inner appearance matters, because their the same thing. They both make up a person. You judge the outer appearance as well when your going for a romantic interest or are you seriously saying you would date anyone despite their outer appearance? 3rd How do you know what a real man is? Why is it that men aren't allowed to have standards when it comes to dating women?

rxm_bxl · Answer

Men have every right to have preference as with other other genders. But having a preference doesn’t mean I only date just that. It simply means that I’m just more obviously attracted to this- whereas the opposite may take more effort or more time- which is very okay. There is however a problem when one body shames woman who do not meet their physical preference. That’s wrong.

Nonetheless, woman with small breast does not ipso facto mean you’re more proportionate. You could have small breasts but a big ass- which is similar to having big breasts and a small butt. you can also have big boobs and suffer from back aches- I have a big chest but no back aches.
The body shaming that these men put on small breasted woman seems to be stirring an annoyance in you though, towards woman with big breasts- going of that beautiful thing you wrote. Either way, just don’t give a fuck, breasts are breasts, big or small.

HighValue · Answer

It is really not different that girls not liking guys for their height. I've heard plenty of girls say they don't want any guys that are under 5' 10 at the shortest. Mostly online, but some IRL too.
It doesn't affect me since I am 6' 1/2".
by the way, I prefer girls with small breasts and I always have. If they are skinny and short too that is even better. And if she is really wimpy to where the majority of 6th graders could legitimately beat her up in a fight even though she is an adult, I find that very attractive. If she is a wimpy sissy girl it can add 1 to 2 points to her attractiveness for me on a scale of 1 to 10.

BBrooke_2002 · Answer

I think that the way men talk about women's bodies in general often comes off as degrading. Everyone has their own preferences I guess, but there is definitely some sort of fixation on size, whether that is chest, waist, height, etc. So sometimes it can feel like nothing's good enough. You just have to remember that that's not true.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I don't think they're being sexist. But I do think they'll take their personal preferences and project them far too much. I have F cups, and I've been through the spectrum of being told that my boobs are perfect, that my boobs are too big, and in between. Funny thing is I can probably make a safe bet that the majority of those guys aren't well endowed themselves.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

The thing is, it’s the person that is important not her boobs or other parts.

while yes I prefer small boobs, that’s just my preference, same as I like tattoos and piercings. It’s a preference, does not mean anything negative about anything else.

opinions and preferences are like Arseholes, everyone has one.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s not just men who do this! I am beginning to see more and women who criticise girls with small boobs. Seen it a couple of weeks ago a girl on IG, she left a comment saying girls with small boobs look like little boys and they are unattractive and gross. I experienced it myself in high school other girls making fun of me for not having boobs this was happening when I was in primary school in year 5 and than again when I was in year 8 and year 9 in high school. I’ve also had grown ass men making fun of me for not having boobs this was when I was 14 and the guy was in his mid 20’s

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

I for one don't care about the size of them. I actually like smaller ones small c b and a. I understand the women who have naturally large breasts. It's just the ones who get implants to like z cup. One the weight is going to destroy your back. Two you must really have low self-esteem to get them that big. If guys are that worried about the size of your breasts over you as a person ( intelligence, humor, interests, and personality) then they're wasting your time. They're shallow, immature, petty and probably just looking to score.

shaysh87 · Answer

It is sexist. But historically women have always been judged off of very superficial things such as looks, age , Weight. 100 years ago, women were property not human beings. Brides were bought and sold by men. Women have no say on who they married.

MrOracle · Answer

MOST men aren't that picky. Realize that it's a handful of men being loud-mouths or who love trolling for reactions that are getting to you. Most men just want some boobs to play with, and don't care all that much how big they are.

Anonymous · Answer

Someone will always have something negative to say. It's a fact of life. The sooner you realise that pleasing everyone is a losing game, the better off you'll be. A lot of us like small breasts. A lot of us like big breasts. Just ignore the ones who don't like what you have, and feel good about the ones who do. You'll be a lot happier that way.

TwinTonyz · Answer

You're definitely not the only one who would think that, but sex appeal in figures who make a living on sex appeal is kinda a requirement. This criticism exists for both sexes. Nothing in all the MCU was worse than Chris Hemsworth being a fat Thor, right?

It's out of color for the times. In an era where much of society is trying to enable all women to look, feel, an act however they wish, anyone having any judgements against women for anything at all is sexism.

nawtee_me · Answer

I have and always will prefer smaller breast. I think a B cup is absolutely gorgeous and it is my preference. That doesn't mean I would not date or go out with a girl with bigger or smaller breast then a B cup. Personally breast size doesn't matter as much as a pretty smile does to me... I am putty in the hands of a girls pretty smile...

Heartache0405 · Answer

I prefer girls with medium - small breasts. All I like the sound of her plague from how she reacts to them being touched. I'm honestly not into large breasts even if they still have the same reaction. 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I've had my experiences with that. It was fun while it lasted. I don't need it anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

First of all, there is nothing "sexist" about men having preferences. That's just silly. It is equally silly to say men who have their preferences are "not really men". Women are just as picky in what they look for in men, so try not to be so hypocritical.

Having said that, I actually prefer smaller or medium sized breasts more than large ones, and I thin many other men do too. I also agree with you about smaller breasts being more proportional to a slim figure.

RealMarek · Answer

It’s weird that anyone would get annoyed at a girl because she has small breasts. I’ve known a lot of guys who have preferences about breasts, but don’t go picking on women who don’t match those preferences.

loveslongnails · Answer

Your last sentence is right on the money, and you'll do well to remember that as you enter the dating realm. Men who care "that much" about any one feature of a woman tend to miss the best parts of the whole package. Similarly, if a guy is a breast man and a girl has his "dream tits", it doesn't necessarily mean she's got anything else going for her.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

1. Don't think it's sexist, just perhaps shallow (but come on, everyone has preferences)
2. I would hazard a guess that the vast majority of men are fine with most of the normal sizes of boobs, and few make a particular point about size exclusivity
3. It's no different than girls discriminating against guys with average/smaller dicks

Seangreen · Answer

I don't like big boobs I've dated more women with a large boobs and small boobs and it really is starting to become a turn off. Embrace your smaller boobs and be glad you're more Nimble and agile and your back won't hurt because of your boobs

MrCommodore · Answer

I don't think breast size is something I thought on when deciding if a girl is girlfriend or wife material.

RobT312 · Answer

Not picky with breasts, all are beautiful. I do like them on the smaller side however

bamesjond0069 · Answer

"... who criticized some models with small breasts!"

Well if a girl puts herself out there like "im a model im so hot, my beauty is amazing" yet has A cups 😂 yeahhhh sure, what nonsense. A lot of girls, actually most girls, have this over inflated ego about how beautiful and special they are and us men find it annoying as fuck and actually even disrespectful so sometimes we will let a girl know what we really think about how "gorgeous" she is.

saffoler · Answer

Nitpicking is the pastime of the internet. Best to just ignore those shallow twits.

dustybiker · Answer

I prefere people to be outspoken with their opinions. Let’s you know who to avoid and who you’ll get along with. It’s like a nice bright warning light.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Being annoyed with something that someone has no control over his just toxic regardless of what gender you are unless it's really bothering you physically, mentally or emotionally.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Small breast are good and I would date a girl with small breast or any other shape

clampfan101 · Answer

I love small breasts! And yes, guys who only care about looks and not personality aren’t real men!

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have never like large breasts. The women that get them surgically enhanced so they are enormous are really grotesque. Not a turn on what so ever.

Anonymous · Answer

What you said is correct. I mean, the breasts really seem out of proportion. I always found it odd to see, and think, but you gave the correct statement.

I agree with you. 100%
No offence intended, none taken.

Grubhub · Answer

No he just is superficial. I’m an ass man not a boob man but I’ve hooked up with girls who had giant boobs and no ass and I was fine with it

Enigma42 · Answer

You are right this men are sexist thre's a saying don't judge book by it's cover.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

i think making fun of anyone for their appearance isn't ok

Anonymous · Answer

Men don't know what they want. they always find fault with the small breasted and the large breasted. Best to stay away from these perverts. There is no need to worry and change yourself for these.

Cubus · Answer

I believe if a man loves a woman, she won't care how big her breasts are.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Some of us just like big breasts. But that doesn’t necessarily mean we all shame girls with small breasts. We just have what we like.

Smiley_face101 · Answer

Guys will have a negative comment on any type of body

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I wouldn't count on that! There's LOTS of loony leftists over here that think that EVERYTHING is either racist or sexist.

Twalli · Answer

I am still going to be picky, because I find small breasts objectively more attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

My experience is the internet is full of vulgar comments about big breasts, but most men I meet IRL do not care. I am somewhere in the A-B size range and can assure you they like looking and playing with mine just fine!

ChiTownLov · Answer

If you see them belittling a female for that, just ask if they got LDS. Throw them off their game.

Clairvear69 · Answer

I have small and friend has big. She get lot of guy attention.

Joshua_blackmon · Answer

it is sexist, and i am fine with being a sexist, just as women are sexist. They just don't realize it when they are being one.

Anonymous · Answer

Your little breasts are just as attractive as larger breasts. Seeing them defenitely would make it feel better getting some relief.

2021biguy · Answer

Small breasts are sweet and I like them so don't worry, there are lots of guys that like them :)

Anonymous · Answer

It's not sexist. But if that's sexist in you mind , then any woman who has a height, penis size or circumcision preferences are also sexist. 😊

OddBeMe · Answer

Huh…you’d think you’re comments would be friendlier to women!

Waldoe · Answer

I prefer small breasts, BIG breasts always get in the way, are sweaty, and serve NO purpose

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Which men are you talking about? Not every single man is attracted to big boobs, y'know? Stop generalizing -_-

Anonymous · Answer

Most men prefer smaller tits, which is why most models have small frames and tits (aside from the fat positive forced bullshit)

Neko_Nya · Answer

I have small boobs and guys seem to love it

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Small breasts are attractive tho. Natural and fun

standardguy · Answer

That is not sexist but bad taste 😂

noohair · Answer

I love small breasts.

Wise4myage · Answer

You aren't and what you say makes perfect sense.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I agree!

Am I the only one who thinks that men who just get overly annoyed at a girl with small breasts is kind of sexist?

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