Do men really care?

[Anonymous]

Do men really care if a woman leaves them after five years after a woman stated numerous of times that she’s unhappy, and things have to change to the acknowledge their faults

[MrOracle]

Have you had marriage/relationship counselling? You are implying that everything wrong is his fault, but I suspect he'd tell a very different story - and I suspect that there is plenty of blame to go around to both of you. Bringing in a therapist, who holds each of you accountable to the other, can go a HUGE way in restoring a relationship - AS LONG AS both people are actually willing to open their minds and make an effort.

Keep this in mind: YOU *picked* this guy. Obviously at one point you thought he was the best guy you could get, and that he had a lot of good qualities. Did you make a terrible choice for all the wrong reasons back then, or are you just focusing on a few annoying things now and are ignoring all of the good?

There is no man out there who is perfect - EVERY man will do some things you don't like or find annoying, just as every woman does some things that a man doesn't like or finds annoying. Everyone who is in a relationship has to make some compromises - that's just a fact. Do you really think today's dating market is a BETTER option for you, especially in your 30s? Have you spoken with other single women in their 30s about the state of dating today?

I suggest that you take a bit of time and REALLY think things through, and that you really consider a therapist. Don't make an even worse mistake - make sure that whatever you choose is the BEST choice available.

[Asker]

I have tried everything besides counseling he would never. I wish he would I think it would help a lot! I know I’m not perfect by any means but he has changed maybe he’s seeing someone else. He’s just so mean calls me dumb never calls me after any argument always waits for me to contact him and acts like everything is good without even talking about it he was my best friend before I think things started getting ugly when I said some thing about his sisters because he constantly wants to hang out with his sisters and never has alone time with me and maybe he felt some type away about that but him and his sisters have such a bond that’s just off to me who knows I know I was a good women to him and I don’t deserve the way he’s been treating me

[MrOracle]

Well, if he won't go to counselling, then he's not willing to invest in the relationship anymore, and there's no point in continuing it.

[crossdressingrihno]

Yeah, absolutely they just might not be as willing to work on themselves as they should be.

[LazerBean]

Men who competent women pick care.

[Anonymous]

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