Why are some nerdy/geeky guys so private?

[Anonymous]

It's like they don't like sharing a lot about themselves or try to hide it & keep quiet

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& their feelings

[FilmGuy93]

Because not everyone, in fact most people, don't like having their bullshit put out on broadcast?

[AydenHazor]

Chances are they're likely an introvert in the first place, and secondly, especially when it comes to their feelings, they've likely bought into the societal expectations of themselves being lesser than more seriously masculine men or that men don't share their feelings, which is a load of bs, but commonly propagated in our society

[Ms_Facesitter]

Whenever I show genuine interest they open up pretty quickly.

[TallAnon]

It can seem that way, but it's mostly that the things we care about is a boring conversation for you.

Want me to go into a spiel of 2 hours about the runes used in the latest two god of war games and their connection to real world relics?

What are you thinking about? "Oh, nothing"

[Lionman95]

Because they are generally not interested in other people they are not used to talking about themselves since they made the experience that it´s not interesting to others.

[Reece12345]

They may have been through a tough time because they're awkward (like, socially). It can make a guy introverted.

[Reece12345]

And they may have been rejected a lot and are too afraid to let themselves fall in love again.

[UniquelyBasic]

Typically people love to share what theyre interested in to a person they are comfortable with.

[JPresidente]

They lack self-confidence and are inexperienced when it comes to women.

[BJP21]

Most are introverts. You have to go to them.

[smahala1991]

Because if we do, we're afraid people will make fun of us or make some snarky comments

[CuriousMufuxka]

They don't like being fucked with. Let me design your E future while I sit back and enjoy :)

[Pohjolan]

Or they are less willing to interrupt other people.

[Anonymous]

Nothing to be gained by doing the opposite.

[Anonymous]

Pretty much because they are plain stupid. Intelligence has many forms

[Asker]

Whose stupid?

[Opinion Owner]

nerds/geeky guys.

[Asker]

I agree. Intelligence has many forms

[Astarlessnightsky]

The stereotypical nerd is introverted.

[boggboss]

U sure this is universal or just the guy u like

[scott04sa22]

Their too busy making money 🤷🏻‍♂️

[EaterPeter]

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