Those who where friendly/supportive at my old gym, now act distant, or ignore me. Am I paranoid to think they spoken about me?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Or do people do that when they realise you don’t go there anymore? Because two of them just ignore me when I messaged them to comment on something nice they posted online and to compliment them and another just acted very distant like she was bothered by me trying to have a conversation :/ it hurt they used to be so supportive and speak highly of me / encourage me and now that I don’t go it’s weird they ignore me it’s like they spoken about me or something and it was unfavourable

[Anonymous]

I used to work at an all woman’s gym and I while definitely feel like there’s clique mentality, those women probably don’t engage with you anymore because you no longer have that gym in common. Some women I see are literally just in contact so they can feel included in the cliques when they get to the gym and do classes or whatever.

[TallAnon]

You did a few weird things and people are also always more interested in new people.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

That explains why one of them ignored me, he maybe told the rest or maybe like you said I wasn’t new anymore so it wore off

[TallAnon]

Wear something more revealing and someone will come to chat again

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I will just stay away till its been long enough to be a distant memory who knows maybe when time is passed they won’t even remember it when they see me