Why bring up the past since 2019 even after I explained the truth to my son's father?

[Anonymous]

i dont know why he keeps bringing up the past since 2019 even after i told him the truth and i don't know what else to do here.. advice anyone?

[Iron_Man]

Some parents do that. They complain to the child about the relationship of the past I think when you’re around the son it should be a positive situation. I’m talking about the mother. The same thing on her end it’s not the kids fault that people get divorced.

[Asker]

its the father who complains to me about the past

[Iron_Man]

Sorry

[Anonymous]

Ok what exactly is your past that you’re talking about? I think no matter what when it comes to an argument men as well as women are going to bring up a person’s past. Especially if one says something to the other person knowing that is a deep, emotional issue for them.

[Guy13]

Some people can’t forgive. He may be one of them. I’m assuming you’ve been good since that time.

[Asker]

not letting go of the past and holding on to it isn't good nor healthy plus i have been good to him but i left him due to him grabbing my neck, threaten me with a Japanese sword aka so called testing saying he would kill me and my sonwhen he was a couple days old at night ... just not good memory and left with my son for our safety

[Guy13]

Wow. Hope you filed police report or at least open a file at local precinct

[20yearsolder]

I take it that you're no longer with him. You don't have to explain anything to him. Refuse to talk about whatever the issue was

[Nikki1989]

Some don't know how to forgive.