Why do some guys just play me?

[laurlaur101]

[Brando10222]

That's how most people are these days I don't know why. It's frustrating a lot!

[laurlaur101]

What’s the point of it how are people supposed to meet people become friends and even become something more just annoying on why they do that

[Brando10222]

I have no idea. But people these days don't care much about others and many just want to have sex. It's hard to find a genuine person

[laurlaur101]

That’s true but why does it always have to be about that this world is not right messed up!!!

[Brando10222]

Sorry I have no answer. I'm on this app when I'm bored and I ask sexual questions cause I like to know what other people like cause everyone is different. It's just like sex education

[Brando10222]

But yeah, it's not safe at all to trust people easily these days

[justFriend]

Can you give me some more details? How do they treat you

[laurlaur101]

For starters they just kinda felt like love at first sight when I met this person seemed interested bc before I was about to leave they told me to hit them up I said ok I ended up doing it but maybe I shouldn’t have bc I didn’t know anything would lead me to this hurt. I had a choice I feel like I should’nt have but if I didn’t I would never know either so I took the risk and it backfired and failed I don't know long story but talked to me for a couple weeks and hung out twice was in the summer invited them over to swim we had a good time well I did took me for a ride in their sports car and just was nice and polite to me ever never gave me a reason to doubt them and as we were just sitting around talking they touched my leg/thigh and made a comment of it being smooth but I don't know if they were after something it just did bc they did like me I think it all was going to quick they got afraid in my opinion then a few days after hanging out they ghosted me I’m still kinda hurt but kinda over it I don’t have any disrespect for them just disappointed in their behavior just how they handled it had no argument so didn’t really end on a bad note and still kept me on social media but just don’t talk to me anymore so I don't know what it’s all about

[laurlaur101]

I just think this person led me on seemed like love at first sight for him interested by just looking at me prob was attracted to me at least it seemed that way but it was so new and I was trying to figure it out he approached me and we met and just I was amazed how quick everything was going I never been in that situation before ever and guy never really gave me a lot of attention like that right off the bat they wanted to talk to me. I’m very confused because they were reliable and showed up when I invited them to hang they were polite to me never gave me a reason to doubt them polite to my parents everything so I don’t get what the hell went wrong it’s just frustrating not knowing. Either they were being fake and it was a front or it was all real and something just changed along the way I don't know I just feel like I won’t be at peace until I fully know at this point I’m just living with what happened and accept it for what it is but still in the back if my head like why couldn’t they give me a heads up and be honest that’s all I could ask for I guess didn’t really care for me at all and maybe had other plans and intentions about me. They were nice and everything weren’t really rude so I don't know what to do I don’t want to change chase them and try to get an answer bc they could just give me some lame ass excuse and not fully tell me it I get people are afraid of hurting others feelings but at the end of the day have to be honest and as nice about it as possible bc that way if someone is aware than they can move on quicker knowing and feel at ease about it if I knew why I would feel much better even if they don’t like me at all I’d feel better but I guess I’m just gonna guess prob just didn’t like me at all I don't know

[justFriend]

A man can be polite, whether he wants something sexual or not. This doesn't mean you're in love. We may want sexual intimacy with people we are not in love with. to me, the only difference is this... "if he really loves you, he won't touch your crotch or breasts until you get married." He just will loves you. If there is early sexuality in a relationship, it means it is dangerous for me.
Don't allow a lot of things until you get married. It may be just small touches. But if he wants to touch your private area, don't let him. This is just my opinion.
If he wants sex with you before he even knows you yet, this could end badly.
Remember, a man has only one thing on his mind. A woman, on the other hand, thinks more romantically.

[Anonymous]

You're not smart enough to see thier true intentions.

[laurlaur101]

Have to realize it’s hard to see that early on if it’s so new

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be in any hurry. If he's worth it, and you are worth it, he WILL wait for you. So take your time.

[Opinion Owner]

And if he doesn't want to wait he's told you what type of guy he is.

[oseveno]

Because men are dumb sometimes

[urpapi69]

Play you?