If the men I like don’t like me back, and the ones who like me are unattractive, does it mean I’m ugly?

[Anonymous]

[Orion76]

Things are rarely what they seem and you might never find out who really likes you, some guys are really good at hiding it and for several reasons especially at places like work where you don’t want to be rejected by someone you see every day or if you send what could be mixed signals, his friend likes you etc. also putting it off like I always do I tell myself I’ll do something about tomorrow and time passes.


Best thing to do ignore everyone especially the one you like be nice but make yourself scarce and gradually more formal and straight to the point in your interactions with them,.


Who likes you and who doesn’t isn’t something you can control and doesn’t say anything about you. Different places and different people incredibly create differently vibes and can change how you feel about yourself from my personal experience I’ve been in places where I felt very attractive even popular, other places I was invisible or worse worked at a company where I felt they hated me. Good luck

[inhua]

attraction is based on quantity not quality

if 1 million hot guys think you're ugly and 1 ugly guy thinks you're hot, then you're ugly

if 1 hot guy thinks your ugly and 1 million ugly guys thinks you're hot, then you're hot

[Orion76]

🤦🏻‍♂️

[pupluv45]

depends on why you like them. are you like them ebcause they are extremely good looking? if that is the case, and none of them to like you back, it might be because they are out of your league. Understand they have wayy too many girls to pick from, they don't have to settle for you.

[CeyCeylovestoask]

Girl -- No. It is just unfortunate that the people you like just don't feel the same. Not everyone will love you the same... Heart wants what it wants you know!

[FunkyMonkee]

I could ask the same question about girls but, I don't see myself as ugly and I still get compliments on my looks. Just last month, someone called me a cutie when she saw my picture.

[SnowedIn]

Nope. There's just not a connection/attraction and it doesn't have to do with looks.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Attraction is more than looks, or at least should be. There are lots of women whom I find aesthetically pleasing but who do not interest me romantically.

[Danny_dan92]

Means you’re aiming too high.




That’s apparently the case with me with women

[Jamie05rhs]

Maybe not ugly per se. But you might be more in the Average range.

[PatriceONeal]

It means you're old and past your expiration still expecting full price.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Pretty much yes

ask your parents why they gave birth to you.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Yes.