If I only get approached by unattractive men means I’m ugly?

[Anonymous]

I always get the attractive guy I like but at some point they tell me my attitude is cold, try to play with me, or used me as a trophy to show me off. My ex husband of ten years who still won’t let me go is attractive. My two exes said my attitude is the problem and one used me as a trophy. 😐 lately everyone is gone and the only two attractive guys is my ex husband who keeps trying to be with me and the other one who comes an go. Other than that unattractive guys I
Don’t get approached a lot or by unattractive guys.

[adam6402]

For a guy to approach he's generally got to believe he has a reasonable chance of success. The best chance of a guy's success is with someone of similar or lesser attractiveness than himself. So if only the ugly guys are approaching then yeah, maybe you're not as attractive as you remember being.

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

Attractiveness is like wealth. You have the super ugly poor, the ugly working poor, the average working class, the above average middle class, the good looking millionaires, the very good looking multimillionaires, the drop dead gorgeous ones with hundreds of millions of dollar, and the inhumanly beautiful billionaires.

The working class approach the middleclass for jobs. Therein lies your answer.

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. I am regularly approached by all kinds of men.

[Danny_dan92]

Your question makes zero sense

[Anonymous]

Kinda yeah.