Why do guys think it is okay to ask for nudes but the moment we ask for something in return they get all offended?

[Alessa13]

Guys will ask for nudes but if I say fine and ask for money first, they get all upset and offended. Then try to make it seem like I am a horrible person for selling myself. All I really want is something for my time and value.

Are they not horrible for asking in the first place?

Why do they think we should give them something of value for nothing in return? and no I do not think a dick pic of a any value. I want something of value.

It is of value to them what they are asking of me or they would not be asking for it.

It is not like any guy will offer something of value first, say money with no expectation of anything in return, I see this as no different. No man has ever said, here is some money I do not want anything from you.

[Aerissa_Jade]

When I had my OF's awhile back, I would send out a advertisement for it with the link on snap or other places and guys would say "I see you have an Onlyfans can I see some of it?"

Some people are idiots. Why would I give it to them free?

They would get angry and mean and think they were somehow special and shouldn't have to pay but everyone else should. Name calling and threatening and usually ended up getting blocked.

You don't need to deal with those kind of people, I hope you block them and share their information on one of the many forums to show what kind of person they are so everyone else who sells content will block them before they can harass them.

Take a screenshot and there is places on reddit, twitter, and Facebook post the screenshots of them harassing you.

This one guy I put out a call for, free pics if they would start sending him unsolicited dick pics and show proof of it, he got hundreds sent to him.

I hope he learned his lesson but I doubt it.

People like that are dumb af and need some special help.

but your right when someone asks and then gets upset over not getting it free, they are messed up in the head to get angry over it. They could just as well be no thanks and move on.

[Alessa13]

OMG that is sooo funny, I will look for some of those places to share information and to even look for the bad people there to not ever talk to them.

[Jennz6]

I gave a few nudes but I never asked for money 💰

[savagewolf22]

Aww jennz

Pm me

[Jennz6]

@savagewolf22 No, I am working now

[savagewolf22]

Take care buddy 😘

[Jennz6]

@alessa13 Thanks for the MHO

[jshm2]

They don't - that's why they are "offended".

In their mind they think they are gods gift to the world. That you're not stripping off for them, breaks their small minds.

[Jennz6]

I used to be a Stripper 💃💯

[SnowedIn]

You make a very compelling case.

Part of the answer (which is in no way on you) is that there are women who will give them out -- that changes expectations.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I don’t ask girls for nudes. —well, not random girls I do not know. I do, however, get many solicitations from “girls” who want to sell me their nudes. If I register on a dating site, I receive many (many!) solicitations from “girls” who want to meet…but they just need a little bit of money for gas or a cab or to buy some more minutes for their phone so they can text me when they arrive at the restaurant. I assume that all of those are scams. They must get some guys to send them some money; or they wouldn’t keep trying it.

So, I would speculate that guys who hit up random girls for nudes have been burned by scams asking for money.

If you want to sell your nudes, I suggest that you set up an account at OnlyFans or somewhere. That gives everyone a framework for payment that is more trustworthy.

But if you are just enjoying the sport of baiting losers who beg for nudes, then carry on. I can understand the appeal of that.

[Alessa13]

I don't bait, offer or sell. If someone asks though I don't have them ready to go, that means I need to take time to get them, edit them and all that. Thus I want money for my time, usually they suddenly have no interest in them anymore at that point.

They want them free.

[Paul_in_Indy]

As I mentioned, though, these guys don’t have any reason to trust you. I have to believe that plays into it.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would never ask for nudes in the first place. Very degrading if you ask me.

The only thing I might ask for is a facial pic just so I can refer to it now and then when I miss her.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Some guys are like that I guess they don't feel like women should value their nudes. I agree with 100% if you want something say it and if they don't want you give you what you want the tell no to what they want and if they get mad block them

[Guardian45]

You're 100% RIGHT ON TARGET!

WELL-SAID!

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

You are right. Pay to play. I think some guys just expect something for free since some women send them freely

[dinojames22]

I've never been offended and yes I have been ask.

If ask my response is normally: "Tell me what you want to see? Where I should take the photo and what details you want in the photo"

[Anonymous]

I don't mind paying money if she has something to offer...

[driven159]

The way to stop guys asking for them is not to give them out to start with

[CubaPirate]

Bigotry in a word

[BrookeS]

Because the have a tiny penis