I have a guy who i met online. We are planning on traveling together in the future. We began talking with each other everyday after we met. He won't go a day without sending me a text. Suddenly He disappeared mid conversation for an entire week. He didn't read my messages. It was so strange of him that i worried he might be dead. Suddenly 1 week later, he sends me a message that he's alive and how are you? I replied. We had exactly 3 exchanges of conversation then he stopped replying. Its been 5 days and he didn't even read my message. The conversation wasn't even finished. He just disappeared mid conversation.
I feel like he's just doing it for the attention. He wants to make other people miss him.
Should i just block him? Im a grown woman almost 30 years old, too old to be entertaining immature games.
he's not busy either. He only works 4 hours a day
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This would be a good thing to wait to see what he says. Things could be happening outside of work, like family issues. Maybe go out an another “date” I don't know if you like this guy or not. But I’d wait and ask if he wants to go out. If not then you can leave him on read.
Ask him what he is doing that for. Let him know you do not like it.
Figure out what he wants.
I feel like he doesn't value me or our relationship
We aren't dating but all of this just shows a lack of respect and consideration towards me
@Haha456 You don't HAVE a relationship. Lol.
Like I said, figure out what he wants. And then go from there.
If you haven't even DTR'ed, don't expect your man to act like a boyfriend.
We had a friendship. Just because we dont have a relationship , it doesn't mean you can be disrespectful towards others
@Haha456 I agree that he shouldn't be disrespectful. But he also doesn't owe you anything.
there's nothing that justifies rude behavior
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@Haha456 Alright. I will concede that point. If he was being rude, then that was wrong.
It sounds like you just hate something against me.
@Haha456 Against you? No! Not at all. I don't believe I know you that well. Although I have seen you around here before.
But no, I do not dislike you. You seem like a cool person.
Oh yeah. I just checked, and it says I had actually sent you a follow request previously. (I don't remember when, though. Probably sometime last year.)