If he only wants a casual relationship and only ever has flings why does he get jealous when other guys talk to me. He puts them down infront of me?

[Anonymous]

Or does it sound like he wants something more. Or is he just competitive?

[MrCommodore]

Yes he is jealous, but not because he secretly is falling for you, just because he doesn't want to share.

Any guy who sleeps with you and insists he only wants casual flings will never fall in love with you later. Your his sex toy or one of his sex toys until the love of his life arrives, he just doesn't like other men playing with his toys.

Dump his ass

[Asker]

Do some guys stay a player until the end of time? As in never fall in love and just continue to sleep around. Do they have issues?

[MrCommodore]

Very few guys stay that way, most guys want to fall in love and enjoy a wholesome relationship and everything great that comes with that.

Player guys never get that, I think they get a high out of the chase, do they keep seeking that high.

[Asker]

I've heard some men say no to all that they just enjoy a short companionship then leave before getting to the point of falling in love. He is mid forties and still doing that

[MrCommodore]

Guys who are in their 40's and still doing that won't change now. Personally I got fed up dating different women by the time I was 32 and wanted something serious with just one woman.

[Asker]

What makes a guy act that way forever do you think?

[Asker]

he's 42. Do you think he could change

[MrCommodore]

No I unfortunately don't think he will change, not at this point.

I think childhood trauma or something like that might be a factor, he avoids relationships and just wants flings, it could be due to his parents and their relationship.

[Asker]

So maybe his dad was the same? Or he didn't have a good relationship with his parents. I agree on the trauma thing though because it sounds like they are scared

[MrCommodore]

Yeah his dad could have been a womaniser or perhaps perpetrated domestic violence etc, it could be anything that prevents him wanting a relationship

[spartan55]

He doesn't more and he isn't competitive, he just wants to fuck any slut he wants while you only fuck him. Aren't fwbs great?

[spartan55]

*want more

[Asker]

So why is he jealous.

[spartan55]

I just told you: he doesn't want to share you with any other dudes. But it's okay for him to fuck around, get it?

[Asker]

What's your thoughts on why some guys never ever settle down and continued to have short term relationships until the end of time? They never want to fall in love.

[Anemone978]

Men are goofs they want you to stay a loyal pet but they can sleep around.. that's why never let them have a casual relationship if all this casual crap would stop then us other people would be able to get boyfriend's finally lol

[Asker]

So do you think he wants a relationship?

[Anemone978]

No he just doesn't like you sleeping with other guys most likely.. but who knows why not ask him lol

[Asker]

He bases himself as James bond. He wants to be him

[Anemone978]

So why you sleeping with a guy like that? I can't really judge because I lent a guy I kind of liked $280 and most likely won't get it back lol

[Asker]

Haven't slept with him. But I know this info about him. Would you date a guy like James bond?

[Anemone978]

Oh that's good, don't unless he gives you a title... but nah not my type of guy... I tend to like complete assholes usually...

[Asker]

Isn't James bond? Lmao

[Anemone978]

He is.. but he is swave as well... the dudes I like don't have that charm they are just douche bags 🤣😂

[Anonymous]

Competition... men want to own shit this days without even putting an once of effort... yawn😴🤭

[Asker]

So if we sleep together once will he still be jealous or be done? Or can gets really have friends with benefits and not get attached?

[Asker]

Can guys*

[Opinion Owner]

What's the point again?

[Opinion Owner]

he's not Trying to commit so why do you give a shit