I hung out with this guy tonight and I came to his place, he was making moves and then we kissed, he did this jerking motion back and forth while I was on him and was weird and then reached for his phone, he didn’t know if he could meet because his sister was needing his help but it came through. I asked if he wanted to lie with me and he said sure and then reached for his phone and looked at some texts and then asked me to leave because his sister needed to talk to him. He told me to let him know I was home, but I don’t know if I did something wrong? The way he was jerking me when I was on his lap is the only thing I might think, but it was strange he told me to leave. I haven’t ever experienced this before. Any thoughts? I obviously never texted him and blocked him. But I just want to have perspective, was there something wrong with me asking him to be on top of me after we had kissed? It wasn’t passionate kissing and honestly it wasn’t very good but I don’t know why he would ask me to leave
First time meeting and when he got a text from his sister he asked me to leave I’m wondering why?
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The story seems rather disjointed, I find it odd that he would agree to meet if he knew he might be needed by his sister. On that note, I'd be mistrustful that it truly was his sister, but that's neither here nor there. The jerking motion initially seemed like a reaction from his phone vibrating, but judging by the way you were both oriented when it happened and the passion of the moment, it's entirely possible that he prematurely ejaculated and used his sister as an excuse. Aside from that I've got no idea what it could be about. If you had planned on blocking him, it seems it would've been more prudent to ask him yourself THEN blocked him, but if you have enough attention from other suitors that you can block someone simply because of an odd behavior then I suppose it doesn't really matter why the odd behavior even happened. The event itself is enough to send you for the hills.
So he told me he didn’t know if he could because of his sister and then invited me over, we were hanging out a bit ended up getting close, and then the kissing happened, he made the jerking motions and then looked at his phone claimed it was his sister and asked me to leave. He told me to text him when I got home, I don’t know if it was me or if it was actually his sister and something going on. But probably the strangest thing I have experienced.
Fair enough; but the chain of events that's causing you to ask is a follows:
• you come over, knowing it may be cut short for his sister
• you two became intimate
• you straddled him
• he made a jerking motion
• he checked his phone and told you it was his sister
• you left and blocked him
If that's how it went down, then I'd say as before- the jerking motion was either reaction to phone vibration or ejaculation. Both are equally likely. I personally have doubts myself that it was his sister.
Yes I think you are right! I just wanted to make sure I didn’t say anything strange, the only thing I think maybe he didn’t understand was the lying on top perhaps? So I just wanted to see if it was anything I did. He was very interested up until the point he looked at his point even though the kissing wasn’t passionate from my point of view, but that’s neither here nor there.
If he was aroused (erect) and you were on top of him, the weight and friction, coupled with his mental and emotional state, means it's entirely possible his glans was stimulated enough fur him to reach unintended orgasm. That being said, such an event is incredibly embarassing and there isn't much he can do to salvage the situation while also keeping it hidden from you. So the emergency from his sister (whether real or not) provided excellent cover for him to clean up and run damage control. The only thing he didn't bank on is your low tolerance for oddity. Hopefully he can learn to clear the chamber (and his schedule) for the next one.
I highly doubt that that was his sister.
Haha honestly was the strangest interaction I’ve ever had at a guys place. Probably not.
Lol.