Guys who stare and wait for the girl approach are only looking for an easy hookup, friends with benefits or attention. Agree or disagree?

[DermalPunch]

I see a lot of posts from girls on here about a guy staring and giving mixed signals.

Then a common response from men (and women) is "he's shy".

I feel that "shy" is really a man who isn't actually interested but will take whatever is on offer when it is convenient for him.

Poll below and opinions welcome! Keep it civil people. We are supposed to be adults here.

Who wouldn't be into Ginnifer Goodwin?

Men are "shy" when they are only semi-interested or attention-seeking

Men are shy when they are super interested

Updates

1 y

I want to clarify that this question has to do with situations when a woman is acquainted with a guy who is showing all the signs of interest but won't be clear about his feeling or intentions. When they come on here, as have I in the past, asking for advice, they are told he's "shy" you have to be approachable, help him blah blah blah. NO! This is a man who doesn't really want you but will take if you are willing to put out. "Shy" is just a f---boy who doesn't want the bad rap of being a user!

Updates

1 y

So it's been a bit. Two shy men flirting with me only to turn tail and run at the slightest bit of interest from me. If he's a guy and he's acting shy HE. DOESN'T WANT YOU! Ladies please do not get played. ✌️

[ShiftingMonke]

I think there are way too many 'X' factors in regards to the how/why men do or don't engage with women; especially of you boil it down to only 2 options.

I mean, you're taking subjective data that's secondhand at best- the statements made by women who confirm they've been observed by men- and drawing only 2 conclusions from it?

There needs to be so much more data points taken into account. An 18 year old girl from a good home and no sexual experience and a 28 year old abused woman fresh off a divorce will see the same guy doing the same thing and draw drastically different conclusions about his intentions.

Conversely, the same logic applies when consulting men and their behaviors. I get that we can only get so generalized before the objective truth gets lost in the weeds, but the only real answer is folks need to be honest to themselves and to each other, and to communicate as much as possible. The less conjecture, the better.

[DermalPunch]

Nice answer! "but the only real answer is folks need to be honest to themselves and to each other, and to communicate as much as possible."

99.9% of people (not a verified stat) don't do this.

It's getting worse and worse.

The 18 year spring chicken doesn't have the expérience and after falling for this shy schtick she becomes the 28 abused divorcée!

[ShiftingMonke]

Oh trust me, I'm not at all gonna disagree with that. I try to give honest answers to people on here and I'm kinda shocked at how many folks answer their own question by explaining it further.

Not a verified Stat 🤣🤣 I'll verify it because it checks out to me.

It's absolutely not a perfect world and it never will be. But I really wanted to answer your poll; I just couldn't in all good conscience pick the most agreeable option given.

[DermalPunch]

No of course! 100% agree. I purposely make my polls like that. Great contribution and thanks for taking the time!

My thing is that I am an upfront person and don't have an issue with being vulnerable or exploring things.

But people have become so treacherous and everyone has a mask on and have turned into chameleons.

Most people see this openness weakness.
Then when you cut them off fully for abusing you, they want to get all salty about it and genuinely don't understand why you cut them out like cancer!

[ShiftingMonke]

It seems I've strutted right into your trap, you've earned a follow. Clever girl.

It really is a good idea to force the voters down a path less obvious. Helps them decide what really is a priority with in problem. Don't worry about my time, I'm on here to waste it. Lol

I must agree, and I'm the same way- if it makes me uncomfortable, I gotta figure out why. I'm not a fan of ambiguity.

I suppose by being open and honest, you can show others that there may be a different way to go about it? That's my view of such things, at least. Let others deceive, that's tiring. Live true to yourself, and happiness will find you.

Cancer getting cut out and not knowing why is like 27% of the questions on here (also not a verified stat 😝).

[DermalPunch]

Mua hahahaha my sinister plot has worked again!

Anyway, who needs to verify things. Thanks and you are most welcome.

[SteveSmith1985]

Disagree. This is... absurd.

This is just as backward as the most backward-ass guys you see on here. You know the ones where you just can't believe that anyone would think that? Where you wonder if that dude had ever actually talked to a real girl in his whole life because of how mixed-up his views about women were? That... is exactly what this reminds me of.

This is horseshit. I don't know if you came up with this theory yourself, or got it somewhere... but this is just horseshit. I mean no offence. I'm genuinely trying to help you here. This... you need to throw in the trash. It's maybe the most misguided thing I've ever heard a woman say on here. Just... crazy-wrong. Please rethink this theory. 🙂

[DermalPunch]

It has happened to me on numerous occasions so you can say it's absurd all you like but I've lived it. People on this question have already acknowledged it does indeed happen also.

Thanks for answering.

[SteveSmith1985]

I obviously am not going to try and tell you you didn't experience what you experienced. But the PATTERN you've found and landed on as your explanation is wrong. All of these guys might have shared this same characteristic, but it had nothing to do with how the relationship went. I didn't mean to be such a jerk though. Or rather... I'm sorry for being such a jerk, I should have said all of that differently.

My apologies. Take care. 🙂

[DermalPunch]

Yes, and I disagree with you completely.

[SteveSmith1985]

Fair enough. You're always welcome to do that. It is, after all, only my opinion.

[chrissykerdock]

a guy who doesn't approach but looks may just be shy have a girlfriend and/or married i really wouldn't think he was looking for an easy hook up... or a friends with benefits situation... infact i wouldn't think of that at all... i'd mostly think he was just shy or think i may reject him or something along those lines.

[DermalPunch]

In another question I touched on what you mentioned. A lot of married men who are bored but really don't want to be that asshole have this "shy" behaviour.

Again, when a man is TRULY interested he will make something happen. Period.

[chrissykerdock]

right! and i wouldn't think if a guy didn't approach he's looking for me to approach him or an easy lay

[DermalPunch]

You wouldn't think it but there are guys who pump and dump using the gaslight, Mixed signals tactic.

[DermalPunch]

My point is that don't by naïve, a guy coming across as shy is not necessarily a guy who is really into you or with good intentions.

[chrissykerdock]

guys are full of themselves that's why we're lonely because of their tricks and games

[chrissykerdock]

i agree with that... there's a ton of guys who will want to use you

[DermalPunch]

Thanks for answering 🙂

[BrightBubblyKat]

I don’t know.. I think they think they can do better elsewhere then realise they can’t and their standards were too unrealistic, so they decide to settle for you. You meaning many of us. Who are quite decent, but not models or celebrities.

[DermalPunch]

Well, I agree with you on the first part but not the second. Guys who are into dating models and celebrities will be in that environment.

[Pohjolan]

You can't determine whether the guy is primarily looking for short-, medium-, or long term relationships on that alone.

There's a myriad of reasons for why a guy might not approach a gal:

- He is not (that) interested.

- He is shy.

- He doesn't want to be seen as a creep.

- Bad location/time.

- He is tired.

- He has a girlfriend.

- He has prioritised online dating.

- He is currently focusing on himself.

- He dates people of a specific sub-culture so makes moves only there.

- Etc.

[DermalPunch]

All proving my point. A man who is "shy" is not worth it.

[Pohjolan]

How is a bad location/time/tired proving it?

[DermalPunch]

Excuses

[Pohjolan]

By the same logic a woman who is "shy" would not be worth it.

You do realise that if we'd hit on every attractive/semi-attractive women, men wouldn't be doing anything else?
No men prioritise who they make a move on and when, as do women.

[DermalPunch]

No, women it's different. Women who are forward are often put into the "easy" box. That's why we have to be aloof and determine as much as possible about à guys intentions before he can have access of any kind.

[Pohjolan]

"No, women it's different. Women who are forward are often put into the "easy" box."

Really? By approaching only?

Also by the same logic one could just as well argue:
"No, for men it's different. Men who are forward are often put into the "creepy" box."

"That's why we have to be aloof and determine as much as possible about à guys intentions before he can have access of any kind."

Please women who are just friendly do basic socialising all the time. Its giving access to what?
Their small talk?

[DermalPunch]

Playful banter. Oh yeah that is highly valuable. It has a huge effect on men as well.

[Pohjolan]

"Playful banter. Oh yeah that is highly valuable. It has a huge effect on men as well."

Eh maybe in Iran or Victorian era England. What you are doing is projecting your own insecurities upon others.
IRL a woman socialising with a man isn't really a big deal nor signalling interest.
Get outside and mingle with normal humans sometimes instead of being behind your screen all day.

[DermalPunch]

Yes, because you know my schedule, lol. Anyway nice chatting.

[Pohjolan]

Or you a living in some bible belt still upholding Victorian values.

[kinggeorge007]

@Pohjolan
Don't try to explain to her. She apparently has some issues.

[DermalPunch]

I live in two continents and travel frequently. So yeah...

[Pohjolan]

@DermalPunch
Where I live men don't gossip like:
"Did you hear that Marie was talking with Matt about the new tram line? She is such a slut."

No just because a woman is a little extroverted we don't consider her easy by default.

[BlackBeauty90]

@DermalPunch Use your brain. When someone really likes another person, they're shy. They're afraid of making a fool of themselves, etc. They're afraid of being rejected.

Guys who approach far too confidentially are typically the ones looking for hookups & friends with benefits because if they're rejected they do not give a shit. Just move on. There'll always be a woman with few or no standards that be interested in easy sex.

[DermalPunch]

I use my brain lots. I posted this speaking from EXPERIENCE! I see so many women on here going after she dudes after a lot of guys advice on here about shy and he just ain't really feeling it. Just read a post about a girl who was told the guy was shy and he just didn't even like her. Was just staring.

To be clear. I am not saying there aren't genuinely shy men but by far and large, when a man is really about a woman shy don't mean ish. Women need to get this.

Bless ✌️

[BlackBeauty90]

@DermalPunch - Most of the women on this site are tramps who wouldn't know a good guy who is potential husband material from a douchebag chatting up any dimwit for easy cheap sex & dumping them like yesterday's pizza if you tattoed "husband" & "douchebag" on their foreheads.

. There's so many posts about sluttish behavior that GAG should turn it's name to Prostitute Central.

[DermalPunch]

Well there is a lot of raunch on here. There are also a lot of posts by naive girls who want a kind, loving man.

They think because a guy is shy and unassuming he's a safe bet.

Sadly, these can be some of the most manipulative, wolfish predators around.

[DermalPunch]

If you read through the responses, a lot a dud got their backs up over this topic because men use this wishy washy behaviour to keep women as placeholders.

Average decent men have this bad habit and generally know and feel somewhat bed when they do this.

This happens when a girl takes shy as he needs encouragement and end up becoming placeholders.

Men depend on women being ignorant of these little ploys and tests they have.

[DermalPunch]

The expression is dumb as a bag of rocks and whatever you say.

[Pegases]

Men are capable of being shy too. I know society loves to paint us as robots, but that's simply false. We're human, we have emotions, and sometimes we get nervous around women we find attractive too.

[Pegases]

You have unhealws trauma to work through. That's what your update tells me. You want it to be that black and white because it's easier to assume it is than to address the understandable fear of being taken advantage of by a fuck boy.

[DermalPunch]

I agree wih you HOWEVER this is a recurring pattern and other people have agreed with me and men admit to baiting girls to stroke their ego.

[Pegases]

Again, it's not as black and white as you want it to be. Unhealed trauma, leads to the thinking patterns you're exhibiting. you're not actually seeing reality, you're sewing a version of reality through your trauma lense. Look it up.

[DermalPunch]

I've read tomes about this very topic. I am able to be very objective.

I actually just got done reading an opion on here of a guy telling the girl asker be careful because if he's staring and not approaching it could be a game or a dare.

The facts are that dudes dare each other to pick up a girl and will exhibit this "shy" behaviour. Guys who only want hookups but don't want to be overt. And guys with girlfriends who just need attention because they are insecure. Married men nude the "shy" act a lot.

This is not trauma this is shit men do. A lot.

[Pegases]

There's shit women do as well. I think what you're experiencing is the female equivalent of redpill rage. Essentially, red pill rage is the realization that women are just as capable of deception as men, and sometimes even more capable. This comes from having thought that most people have good intention, which is ultimately true, except it's tough to accept that fact when you have a hard time distinguishing between people with good intentions, and people with bad intentions. The fact is, men can be shy. Sure, some men pretend to be shy in order to get a girl to approach them, just like some women pretend to genuinely be interested in a guy romantically for the free attention or free dinner. There are bad people, plain and simple, and yes that realization can be scary, especially if you've been hurt by one of them, but the only way forward is to grow from that experience. In life, nothing happens to you, everything happens for you. The universe simply wants you to grow. And I think your first step, is to heal. You won't see things realistically until you do, because your fear will almost always overpower your logic. And it's as they say, hurt people, hurt people.

[DermalPunch]

Nope! I like men. I enjoy their company. I am talking about a specific pattern of behavior.

[Lionman95]

I think both could be the case because a guy that is insecure or shy in any situation in life is also insecure with dating. The problem is that as a woman or a stranger in general that's nearly impossible to figure out.

[DermalPunch]

Exactly!

[Juxtapose]

I tend to be on the more shy side myself and it is not for a lack of interest! I have had times I felt really nervous before asking a girl out and it was because I was invested in the outcome, I wanted them to like me back.

If a woman approaches me then that eliminates a lot of guesswork and risk. I also have a thing for more assertive women and don't find women who wait for me to initiate everything to be that interesting.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Guys who stare and wait for the girl to approach are either not very interested or not putting in the work. I don’t know why you are assigning a particular relationship status to them. If I want a hookup, you better believe I will approach and open the dialog!

[DermalPunch]

I am not assigning a relationship status. WhatbIbam saying is there is so much advice in here for girls to make it easy for shy guys be approachable.

Your first sentence is what I want women to realise. They think he's shy so they go after him and men won't really turn down women.

Also, there is this myth perpetuated that shy guys are nicer not going to betray you their introverts and it needs to stop.

If he isn't approaching and is just willing to take you up on your availability as opposed to going for it you will likely be played.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Your question is so absurd and unusual that I am left trying to decide what could have prompted it. I will speculate that you noticed the guy noticing you. He wasn’t interested enough to approach you—only to notice— you opened the dialog and he was willing to sleep with you, if he could, but didn’t really care for anything more.

“Staring” doesn’t mean anything. It is not a form of communication. Guys aren’t trying to tell you something by staring. They are just enjoying your appearance.

If you throw yourself at me—or let me know I can have you if I want you— I will almost certainly hook up with you. I won’t chase you away. …but it doesn’t mean I was ever “interested;” only that you gave me that opening.

[Paul_in_Indy]

…but your question is not about “shy” guys. There are lots of shy guys who will be friendly to a girl buy are afraid to ask her out. Those guys are shy.

A guy who looks at you isn’t being shy. He’s just looking.

A Fuckboy, on the other hand, isn’t shy. He will approach you and try to fuck. (Trust me, I know about that!)

[DermalPunch]

Thank you for proving my point even further. This is the whole exact point I want to be understood. I don't really give a toss what you think about my question! Cheers

[DermalPunch]

Nope. There's plenty of quiet fuckboys.

[DermalPunch]

Also, the so-called shy guys on here really seem to think stating IS a form of communication so... yeah.

[Paul_in_Indy]

No, staring is not a form of communication. And no, a shy boy is not a fuckboy. If he’s not really interested and you throw yourself at him, he’ll take you—but that’s you being a fuckgirl and initiating casual sex with a guy you caught looking at you. Of course, he’ll go along with that!

[Paul_in_Indy]

…but I have no idea why you are so militant toward people who respond to your questions. We are here engaging with you and trying to enjoy a conversation and an exchange of ideas—which you initiated—and you keep responding with this aggressive “I don’t care what you think (loser)!” Why?

Anyway, thanks for talking. I, at least, have enjoyed it.

Why ask a question on a question-asking forum if you don’t want a conversation?

[Paul_in_Indy]

Thanks for talking. I, at least, have enjoyed it.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Really depends... I've been to places where it's sort of custom to let the chicks pick and choose. Wasn't about being shy at all... it's just if she's not interested enough to start something then I'll pass.

[Jamie05rhs]

No; that isn't true at all! Wow. Where do people get these cockamamie ideas?

[DermalPunch]

Because it has happened to them!

[Jamie05rhs]

What? Lol. That doesn't make any sense!

[DermalPunch]

Well, that's what happens.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sorry, but I thoroughly disagree with you.

[DermalPunch]

I know you do because I know you're a wholesome guy. But I have experienced the dare, the married dude, the undercover player and the attention seeker. To thr point it's pretty much always one of these four categories.

A lot of guys on here say shy this and shy that and girls are getting burned and everyone wants to deny it.

Women who want a decent guy that wants a committment that she should be aware of this trap!

[Jamie05rhs]

@DermalPunch Okay; I understand.

Thank you for the compliment. 😇

[Jamie05rhs]

@DermalPunch I think what happened in this case (your update) is that they weren't looking for a relationship but they were attracted to you physically.

[DermalPunch]

i never asked anyone for any relationship. the first just wanted me to tak to him first so he could brush me off. So pathetic.

second one has been hardcore flirting with me. asked me if I had a man then clammed up and went all in his phone when I asked if he had a girlfriend a few days later. when did i ask for a relationship? I

[Jamie05rhs]

@Jamie05rhs I meant a relationship of any nature. As in, any kind of romantic or sexual entanglement. They're attracted to you, so they like to flirt; that's it.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DermalPunch

[DermalPunch]

yes, i get it. I abhor this. If I flirt I mean business.

[DermalPunch]

Now, don't get me wrong. A little wink and flirt with a stranger sure. But protracted and progressive romantic flirting jist to see how far you can get then pulling the plug. It's despicable! Especially with someone who wasn't looking to flirt.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DermalPunch Oh. Protracted and progressive? Yeah, that's not right. Those dudes need to have a little more respect for other people's feelings. Deception and manipulation is wrong.

[DermalPunch]

@Jamie05rhs people don't respect people anymore. it's sad.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DermalPunch I agree. 😟

[Randalama]

Good question and framed perfectly in the first sentence. Pay no reference to what "lots of post from girls" think. Ask the guys. Purchase body armor in advance.

[DermalPunch]

Sorry bidybsrmour? I don't get the joke.

[DermalPunch]

*body armour

[Randalama]

All I can do is type slower. That's probably not going to work.

[DermalPunch]

Oh you wanna do that instead of explaining what you were implying.

[Randalama]

I'm not implying anything, it's perfectly clear.

[DermalPunch]

It isn't. It's rather obtuse.

[Randalama]

Well, it's certainly deflecting, I won't argue that.

[boggboss]

Being shy had nothing to do with intrest its to do with confidence for some reason many women like yourself think men are immune to the same emotions that effect women

[DermalPunch]

Interest isn't what is being argued here.

It is the nature and intensity of the interest. I absolutely DO NOT think men are "immune" to emotions. I know they aren't.

My issue is that a lot of women are getting bad advice that the guy is shy when really he is throwing her a few bones of attention to get his dick wet and some female company without putting in any effort. A lot of women are getting played and used after this "shy" thing.

[boggboss]

So how do u account for the difference between a guy thats shy or a guy thats playing games because where I'm standing its the exact same for guys that are intrested in a girls who give mix signals and are told she is shy

[boggboss]

The issue is that if being shy can lead you to seeming like u are playing games we are essently punishing people who are not confidant on the chance of playing games

[DermalPunch]

Women and men expérience the same emotions but differently

Women and men are different. Women are more vulnerable with men.

Someone put it best. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships.

Women generally want à relationship to feel sécure because of her reputation. A promiscuous man will always have relationship prospects while a promiscuous woman greatly diminishes her chances of finding a long term partner.

So women have a lot more at stake in that regard.

So my point is that women are shy because they don't want to be taken advantage of sexually.

Men may want to come across as Jon threatening but are really wolves lying in wait.

My mission I guess is to detect this species.

[boggboss]

20 years ago I would say that's complety true this day and age I would disagree there are much more shy men or men scared of rejection then men that are confident

[DermalPunch]

No not punishing. Take a risk. My God.

[DermalPunch]

Well, frim MY personal experience the so-called shy ones who people say are more g equine and decent were to most deceitful and treacherous.

[DermalPunch]

Were the most

[boggboss]

Thats what I mean tho I'm not denying there are men that do this just that I was a man that lacked confidence before i got with my fiancée and if she was told its because I'm trying to play games our lives would be completely different

[DermalPunch]

It's true. I guess it's just life. Win some lose some.

[boggboss]

Pretty much

[DermalPunch]

Congratulations!

[boggboss]

Thanks 😊

[kinggeorge007]

You are wrong. There are many shy and introverted men out there. There are not fuckboys. Who told you that? If you don't want them, sure fine. But don't label them with something they aren't. What's wrong with you?

[DermalPunch]

I am speaking from experience. Women need to understand that if a man is wishy washy he doesn't want her like she wants him. There simply isn't enough interest.

Women are taking the lead with guys who come across as shy and then getting burned afterwards when they become a placeholder.

Also, everyone has issues. Get over yourself.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No. You should also look at the circumstances of a guy that to just lump all of the guys together. There's far too many different situations in life to merely say, oh he's not approaching, he must be only interested in sex!

[DermalPunch]

Honestly... not really.

[Brando10222]

Who jeep on staring a lot and makes other people uncomfortable only want sex

[Brando10222]

Keep*

[Brando10222]

Can you dm me? I want your opinion on something

[DermalPunch]

You remind of my jeep
I dunno why

[Brando10222]

Cause I texted jeep instead of keep

[DermalPunch]

I don't do DMs. My policy.

[Brando10222]

Its okay, thanks for at least saying no. Some people ghost for no reason.

[DermalPunch]

Oh no. That's so rude. If you post the question and @ me I will answer it if / as best as I can.

[Brando10222]

I've posted it but it's anonymous so not sure if i cam @

[DermalPunch]

Ahh therein lies the rub!

[Brando10222]

Not sure what that means. Anyway, thanks!

[DermalPunch]

It was a reference to a song

[Tima4toto]

I feel like a lot of guys are shy when they are interested in you and don’t approach but sometimes this could be because they have a girlfriend. This happened to many girls before including me where they obviously like you but they aren’t single. However I feel like the more confident guys that approach and ask you out, are more likely to be the ones that want you for sexual pleasure or want attention

[DermalPunch]

A confident man who approaches respectfully is the kind of man you want.
Guys who can't be upfront are generally hiding something, lacking in confidence or insecure.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Disagree.

The exact opposite is true, it's usually the guys who want hookups that hit on women, and the guys who want a wife that wait for the woman to do it.

[DermalPunch]

Or don't want to work for NSA sex...

[TheSpaceGnome]

what? 😂

[DermalPunch]

Dead serious.

[TheSpaceGnome]

About what? 😂

[DermalPunch]

What I said.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What is NSA sex? is that a new cosplay kink? I'm gonna need a bit more to go on here 😂

[DermalPunch]

No strings attached now referred to as friends with benefits

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ah Ok, I was picturing something very different 😂

Anyway I don't do casual sex, thats for losers. Most guys who do want casual sex tend to hit on women, because the same impatience that makes them not want to wait for the right person before having sex, also makes them not want to wait to get your number. So I stand by my initial statement that the opposite is usually the case.

[DermalPunch]

Thanks for taking a stance and sticking to it. I just want to help people be happy and find respectful companionship and maybe even (true) love ❤️!

[TheSpaceGnome]

I mean if thats the case, I'm not having much luck and could certainly use the help looking 😅

[DermalPunch]

Don't EVEN get me started

[TheSpaceGnome]

Lol, is that a challenge? 😏

[DermalPunch]

We will have a race. First to get cuffed wins a prize!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Whats the prize? 😂

[Fireguy17]

I disagree.
They are probably just tired of getting shot down, so when a girl approaches him he will think that she might just be interested in him.

[Zayed_]

personally the more I’m into a girl, The more unlikely that I will show her any attention or stare.

From my experience who ever makes the first move loses later

[AmandaYVR]

Absolutely false.

This is just another lame attempt at justifying why females shouldn't have to approach.

[DermalPunch]

@AmandaYVR hey girl ✌️ listen I am all for approaching. I'm just noticing this dumb trend of ego boosting getting the girl to "fall" then brushing her off like she's crazy for even thinking she had a shot. Luring people into a trap. It's cruel. I got my first husband approaching (now ex). I will say this... he turned me down initially! And the cold feet is crazy these days.

[Jamie05rhs]

@DermalPunch Women have been doing that for years, though. I 100% agree that it's wrong. But why are women not called out when they do it?

[DermalPunch]

@Jamie05rhs they should be! All people should. The thing is I may seem shybor aloof because I am trying to sniff out this ego-boosting garbage. It seems that's the only interest I get these days. It's all good.

[Noodle_fan]

i think it is actually guys who are very confident when approaching girls , are more likely to be players/fuck boy

[Mayo503]

Or could it be not sure if people trying to set you up…?
Which way you look at it from?
And what’s gone on in the past events