Why does a coworker flirt with me when we are alone and also when others are present?

[Anonymous]

It’s like he has no shame.

[Guy13]

Obviously, he thinks you are attractive and will respond in an interested way. You must act like you enjoy it for it to continue. Maybe he thinks that you have a hidden crush agenda...

[Asker]

He came after me so if anything he must have a crush

[Guy13]

Yeah but to be forward in his advances he is feeling something for you unless he is a straight-up pervert. Do you two ever communicate away from work. He hasn't hinted at going out?

[Asker]

No he hasn’t. I thought maybe he’s a bit shy but who knows

[Guy13]

This is a little bit too off for my comfort level. You're 30 so surely you know this is odd.

[Asker]

I’m just following his lead. I don't know what else to do.

[Guy13]

then stop worrying about it or him. He does not sound like a leader anyway.

[Asker]

🙏Ok thank you

[Guy13]

Sure... hope it plays out as you wish !!

[Iron_Man]

Does he ever even ask you out? What’s the point?

[Asker]

Who knows

[Iron_Man]

Ask him out

[Anonymous]

Because they want to keep things on the down low.

[Asker]

He flirts in front of others just the same as when we are alone

[Opinion Owner]

Then why not ask him?

[Anonymous]

How many times are you going to post this?

[Brando10222]

He doesn't

[Brando10222]

I meant he doesn't have shame

[Jdirhtirbr]

I would be ashamed

[Brando10222]

Me too