Why does an older male coworker seem to flirt with me and my female coworker?

[Anonymous]

First it was just me (that I know of). Now he flirted IN FRONT OF ME. Wtf. Chose one woman.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that's pretty lame of that dude to be flirting with multiple coworkers like that. What a tool.

I'd be pretty annoyed too if I saw him flirting with your coworker right in front of you. Like have some respect, dude, pick a target and stick with it rather than coming off so skeezy.

It's unprofessional enough he's hitting on coworkers at all, but shopping around like you're items on a shelf is just rude. And kinda creepy since you all have to work together still.

I'd call him out on that mess next time he pulls something and make it clear you don't find it funny or okay. Or maybe go to HR if it happens a lot. Guys like that need to learn boundaries.

Best to just ignore his ass when he tries it. No need giving him even a second of your attention or energy. You ladies are too good for that desperate behavior. Dude needs a reality check for sure.

[normalice]

Workplace flirting is really just a way to pass the time. It's a good bet to say if either of you turned up on his doorstep his first words would be "what the hell are you doing here?"

[IslaTheWitch]

Flirting doesn't mean a commitment. You can flirt with as many people simultaneously as you want. It's more a probing and learning about people who look interesting.

[RedInnocent68]

He has to. He knows he's being too obvious if he treats you differently, but… he likes you! Da dum dum. That doesn’t necessarily mean it’s serious though. There are a few mystical guys, like unicorns really, that flirt with everything that moves.

[Anonymous]

Lol the mind of women. He’s casting multiple lines to see which one will bite. Maybe he wants a threesome.

[jeffend888]

Lol. So is it sexual harassment or jealousy? I can't seem to figure out which issue you have right now.

[Nikki1989]

Typical behavior for most males.

[Iron_Man]

Some guys like to do that a lot

[Asker]

Ugh.

[Longshanks1968]

Put out or watch him move on

[jahaims]

Some people flirt with everyone

[In_Trance]

Lol wait'll he gets written up

[riverrat3]

He may just be a flirt