Why do guys talk shit and bash woman that they were once involved with after a sour ending?

[Anonymous]

The guy in this context specifically fucked up & played the woman & he went back to his ex girlfriend & now he bashes her & avoids her & blocked her number, etc.

The woman who got played wishes him nothing but the best and wants him to be happy.

[Guy13]

Cause guys feel wrong snd we’re slow to grieve and feel the pain from that wringing or breaking up. We all react differently.

Someyimes it is a method to continue relationship connection and control.

[Asker]

Is it “I realized I fucked up” type of thing or a different case?

[Jdjfjcjj]

If they do, then they sound as retarded as the women who claim every past relationship of theirs was the fault of their narcissistic exes and they didn't do anything wrong themselves.

[LivDev]

All sorts of people do this. It's not a man thing it's a spiteful thing. Anyone can be spiteful.

[Asker]

Is it “I realized I fucked up” type of thing or a different case?

[LivDev]

Can be. It can be that he has a reason to, maybe it was her fault. Maybe it was mutual but he's wants to talk smack because he thinks she is. Maybe he's just insecure. Relationships are usually too complicated for someone on the outside to cast judgement and be completely right.

[BrightBubblyKat]

Don’t get involved in his drama. He’ll undo himself.

[Asker]

What do you mean by undo himself?

[BrightBubblyKat]

There’s a saying ‘Give him enough rope to hang himself.’

[BrightBubblyKat]

Keep being ‘nice girl;’ mention things he says to your friends and wonder out loud why he’s doing it. Everyone will realise how mean he is and he’ll undo himself.

[riverrat3]

because he failed and needs to take it out on the person that made him fail, but still not an excuse to treat her like that

[Asker]

What do you mean by fail? failed how?

[Anonymous]

he does that because she hurt him bad and caused him a lot of pain