Guys, so guys WHY do you want a woman who is young, with little to no education and few to no good job oppurunities as your girlfriend or wife?

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I've been curious because there's so many posters on here that have indicated one way or another that they want an uneducated, jobless young stay at home wife.

And as someone on here posted about how her mother - who had no real education or job oppurunities - had to put up with their abusive bullying tormenting father for years because she didn't have the money to leave.

And it wasn't just the mother abused, this bully so badly abused one of the poster's siblings at 11 that that sibling has completely eradicated the memories of their father from their mind as a coping mechanism (won't even acknowledge the man as father in a painting).

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Now 90% of women in abusive relationships do not have a good education and limited job oppurunities. They are strongly dependent on their abuser for money, housing, clothing, etc. The other 10% are women who have drug addiction, alcoholism or mental health problems.

But everyone from doctors to judges to social services to police will tell you the same thing - vast majority of women in abusive relationships stay because they have no means of escape - these professionals see it day in, day out.

I've worked in these fields for years & heard it from women and colleagues alike. Women trapped in abusive relationships, even relationships where they are physically harmed to the point of having broken bones, because they don't have the means to escape.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We don't give a shit about your degree and how well you've done for yourself. Congratulations. You did that for you, not us.

Men are more impressed by a woman who will treat him right, make him feel like a man, respect him and love him. The same way women want us to. That's what human beings want. It's a universal truth.

You could be broke and jobless, but if you're a sweetheart and you fulfill our emotional needs, you're good.
I don't care if you have a PHD and make $200K a year, if you're a selfish entitled bitch, you can swim with the fish

I'm probably talking to a man hating brick wall though, so nothing I say will make you reconsider your sick and twisted view of men

FilmGuy93 · Accepted Answer

It's not that we affirmatively  want  an uneducated stay at home wife, it's that we don't care about women's professional achievement. It's just not something we typically look for. My girl is an electrical engineer. I like how intelligent she is and I appreciate that she earns a paycheck. That said, I wouldn't care if she didn't, because that's not why she is in my life.

Pohjolan · Answer

Firstly a young woman either is or likely will be fertile.

Men that had relationships that did not produce offspring never passed on their genes to next generations.

This is why men have a preference for women that they perceive as fertile whether a young woman or a voluptuous MILF.

Also men don't date women because they are poor or uneducated but despite.

Women care about 300 times about a mans income than men about a women's.

Would you reject a man who earms just 150 000 $ a month?

That's how men see a woman earning 500 $ a month.

No things like their personality, looks and sexual history matter more.

As a woman your income and education doesn't make you more desirable than the random cashier.

Anonymous · Answer

I think that's a misconception on your part. Most guys probably just want a woman without impossibly high standards. They probably feel a woman with few prospects will be less demanding. A decent hypothesis but not always true. I personally don't judge people by income or education. You don't need always to go deeply into debt (school loans) just to make a good living and I personally do not want to date a woman with that mindset. I have a net worth that far surpasses much of my peers. I'm old enough now to understand that there are a lot of things in life outside a person's control. I've worked hard, I've been tenacious, I've made good moves. But above all I've been very fortunate.

I've said many times I don't care what a woman makes. Only that she's passionate about what she does. Because that'll tell me more about her than anything. If she doesn't care, she probably won't care about me or anybody or anything else.

exitseven · Answer

I do not understand that either. Maybe these guys are uneducated as well and they are intimidated by a woman that was more educated than they are.

My wife made slightly more money than I did for many years although my job had much better benefits. It sounds stupid but I actually did bother me a little.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Force them to stay I guess. I'd rather have a more equal partner. I also prefer my age or slightly older However, I wouldn't discount someone because they're poor or not well educated or younger. I'm not the type to use force or even intimidation. I try to compromise with everyone to get a balance for what we need to do.

boggboss · Answer

Its control many men want a women thats impressionable and won't argue back meh

Dachshund_guy · Answer

Because they are controlling. The easiest way to control someone is to isolate them and to prevent them from feeling they can take care of themselves.

Wise4myage · Answer

Any guy that wants that in a girl, wants to control her.

Noodle_fan · Answer

I am agree with what u said here. I think power balance is important so one wouldn't take advantage in other.

Juxtapose · Answer

I don't care about your qualifications as long as you can pay your half of the rent.

loveslongnails · Answer

Savior complex for one thing, and domination for another.

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