Men stare at me out in public, then my boyfriend stares at other women?

[Anonymous]

Can you tell me why he's doing this?

I don't even pay attention to these other men. So why is he punishing me?

[Guy13]

Do you grab his arm with both hands when other start staring at you cause he's blaming you too which means "he's not enough to suit you" Guys are action so keep your words to yourself as that makes it worse.

He stares at other women and may comment to get back at you or not see the guys looking-He knows the guys are thinking 1.she's hot... damn that's beautiful and if you are smiling back, 2. I wonder what she's about.., 3. He wants her attention then have at it... I'll look over here.

[Asker]

I honestly usually never know they are staring until the last minute. I usually look where he is sometimes.
I do this when other women are ogling at him lol I say damn you're sexy
But I should when other guys are drooling over me too? It sucks he gets revenge on me. When I didn't do anything

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Lust. I still reckon He wants to be Your boyfriend nevertheless, but look at what Nature does to the fellow Earthlings! Tell him Your feelings about it. Hold His hand more. Hug and kiss more, or at least enough.

[Wise4myage]

He probably thinks you are checking other guys out.

[Asker]

That's my thing IM NOT!!
I'd glance at him cause he's staring too hard. Either I say something or not I'm not emgaging other men... but he does?

[Wise4myage]

That's weird.

[nawtee_me]

maybe the other girls are not paying attention to your boyfriend either

[Asker]

Most arnt Lol
But he still goes out his way to hurt or punish me I don't understand

[riverrat3]

Are you sure his intent to punish you, nearly all guys look at women, just to look

[Asker]

Yea sure that's true. But he goes out his way especially when men give me attention like punishing me...

[riverrat3]

i look at other ladies, if my wife wants to look at guys no problem, if they look at her makes me proud

[Asker]

That's good for y'all sweets

[Asker]

You're totally misunderstand where I am coming from

[riverrat3]

i think you are both insecure

[Asker]

Okay? But that's not answering my question. And you're being super passive aggressive. Bye

[spartan55]

You don't pay attention to other men. Yeah, and I play in the NHL.

[Asker]

What makes you think I'm not minding my business?

[spartan55]

Everyone looks at people they find attractive. Some are good at it and discreet, others have no self awareness and do it blatantly.

[Asker]

Pay attention to another man... to me is glancing back or showing any kind of inclination they exist. Even the fine ones. I really don't do it.
Now if a man or woman holds a door I smile and say thank you
I don't go out of my way especially when my boyfriend is around to look for another's mans attention. Yes people look and glance but I don't want to give people the idea they have my attention or give them reassurance that they have my attention over my man while I'm with my man and I'm constantly glancing at them. Sorry I care about my partners feelings🖕

[spartan55]

It's not about getting anyone's attention, or looking for it. That's not what checking someone out is.

[Asker]

This is literally your fucking words
"You don't pay attention to other men. Yeah, and I play in the NHL." You're infuriating

[spartan55]

Yeah, that's what I said. Where am I contradicting myself?

[Asker]

Well why bring up me not paying attention to men and then I say and explain how I don't. Yet you can't seem to fucking stop with me. You can't seem to comprehend the situation. We are talking about my boyfriend punishing me. You seem to always flip on the other person trying to make them feel they are out of line. ✋️ talk to the hand I don't want to hear it face ass. Get a grip you don't own how I feel and wtf I do.

[spartan55]

What the hell are you even talking about? Idgaf if you want to nag and micromanage your boyfriend, that's his problem. My point, since you can't seem to get it, is: you both look at attractive people. You can look at attractive person without trying to get their attention.
If you are that insecure in your relationship then it has no chance

[Asker]

I don't look at people thats where u got it tf wrong. You differentiate looking as glancing and checking out. Sure I see someone and keep it the fuck moving but how you said it was me checking out people and I don't. So excuse you

[Asker]

Checking out as keep glancing and etc. Showing them validation that they have my attention especially around my man please go fuck youraelf

[spartan55]

Nice mouth princess, your boyfriend is one lucky dude...😂 😂 😂 😂

[Asker]

That's why he put a ring on it BITCH!

[Asker]

I hate when people try to gaslight me and then get that ass fired up by me!

[spartan55]

Gaslight? Do you even know wtf that means? Keep throwing stupid buzzwords out there... moron...
Ring on it? hmmm... you referred to him as your boyfriend, not your fiance. Nice try, liar.

[Asker]

Spartan go suck a fat one homie. Don't fuck with me

[Asker]

I call him my baby daddy and my daddy you want more

[Asker]

He's everything under the sun you mad?

[spartan55]

Mad that I lost on a chance with you? Yeah, I'll be upset all weekend. Anything else Miss Classy?

[Asker]

You are excused

[boggboss]

Because he is a asshole why not call him out on it

[Asker]

I do. And he will deny. But I finally did the other night where I had the courage to not care wtf he had to say. I try my best to be a good woman to him. I guess it's not enough

[boggboss]

Again seems you are with a shitty guy he won't change his behaviour so decide what u want

[sheenagwapa]

insecure!

[Anonymous]

because he wants to be with other women

[Asker]

So he intentionally hurts me when I get attention from other men? Okay I get it he's not man enough to be with me. That's fine. I've told him he's free to leave me. He don't cheat none of that my man ain't going no where sweets and neither am I smh I was just hoping if it something I can fix

[In_Trance]

people look

end of story

[mathew1543]

Its not punishing lol. He's creepy

[Asker]

How's it creepy?
He only stares at other women when I get stared at by other men.
He's doing it on purpose

[spartan55]

@asker
He's not doing it because other men are looking at you. That's absurd.

[Asker]

@spartan55 get a life. Why does he always react that way then? I always notice he does it to piss me off when men stare at me. He gets jealous. Spartan you have no idea stfu please

[spartan55]

Yeah, I'm sure... EVERY single time.. 😂..
. I'm sure he is closely watching all guys at all times to make sure they aren't looking at you. 😂😂Riiight...
by the way you chose him honey. When's that wedding?

[Asker]

@spartan55 every man is really clingy and overly protective and insecure with me.. he's an average guy and doesn't wanna lose me. I get it.

[Asker]

Since I've called him out he doesn't do it honey

[spartan55]

That's stupid. If you wanted to leave, you would. Him acting like a jackass doesn't change that. Did you call your boyfriend an 'average' guy? Not big on humility are ya?

[Asker]

@spartan55 we are talking about the same man lol... why are you harassing me

[Asker]

@spartan55 who brought up leaving? Stalker

[spartan55]

Okay Miss Buzzword I Don't How to Use Properly. Get yourself an education ffs.

[Asker]

@spartan55 okay while I go to school how about you leave this comment section and finally leave me tf alone

[spartan55]

Yeah, keep telling me what to do.

[Asker]

@spartan55 you're very weird and you're taking it far. Be well

[spartan55]

Sounds good.