Did I get stood up or rejected?

[starrr1231]

Me and this guy have been talking for awhile. We have seen each other a few times in person as well. We had a lot of fun together. We recently got into an argument because we were sopose to go on a date one day and he never answered my phone calls or text and he claimed that his aunt was in the hospital. I just wanted him to at least communicate with me that he was busy and wouldn’t be able to make it. A few days after he wanted me to come over to his place so we could hang out. He texted me 5 minutes before I got there. Once I arrived I texted and called and he never answered! I waited 15 minutes and still didn’t hear anything! His car was there! I don’t get this behavior…

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+1 y

we never were intimate

[SueShe]

Stood up and rejected simultaneously...

Obviously, you did not get the message the first time after you got into an argument. Men in general don't like to be told off and he did not take it too well. Also, the story of his aunt in the hospital stinks.

I have never heard of a guy caring that much about an aunt that he would visit her in the hospital.

Perhaps that you should start taking your distance from this guy. You stated that you were never intimate and that is probably the cause why he stood you up. If after a certain time men are not able to be intimate, they lose interest in that person.

Your best option is simply to forget about him and concentrate on the real important things of life and not about men that don't really care whether you exist or not.

[starrr1231]

Yea I figured. It’s dumb asf to tell me to come to your place and leave me hanging there knowing your no longer interested

[SueShe]

That is about the best summary you could give :-( sorry for you!

[Guy13]

Alright, it seems like he is not a reliable guy. One can not change another into Reliable. Being consistent and reliable is not who he is now. It is sad especially because you seem sincere.

He is not worth the Risk whether Aunt or not..."hospital, Aunt, talk soon as I can...

[BagoH]

He's an insecure boy who's desperate for attention / validation. Leave his sorry ass asap :)

[boggboss]

Please tell me u are not having sex?

[starrr1231]

No we have not had sex yet.

[boggboss]

Cool as his behaviour seems like fuck boi behaviour

[Anonymous]

Both, but mainly disrespected. Fuck that guy