Doesn’t post you a red flag?

[Anonymous]

Is it a red flag if he doesn’t post you or put you on his bio?

[WaterIsland]

I’m personally pretty low key on social media. It serves a very specific purpose for me, which is to get and read about news. I don’t use it as a social platform really. So although I’m sure I’d post like wedding photos someday on social media maybe. I’m personally not rushing to do that with a girlfriend.


If I were in a relationship with someone who asked this tho, I’d want her to talk to me about it so I could explain myself. Because it’s not meant to be a red flag at all. But I’d want her to talk to me so I could put her mind at ease.


So if I were you, I’d talk to him about it casually. Just say you’re curious, and it’s not a big deal. I wouldn’t make a huge deal about it tho. And go into it understanding that he might just view social media differently than you, and it’s not necessarily a red flag.

[spartan55]

It's a red flag 🚩 if you think that bullshit fake social media matters.

[BillyBass23]

No, it's not. Some people are more low key on social media, that's all. If you're uncomfortable, ask him about it.